Please read. It is important to me. It is how I feel.
I have been on this site for quite a while now; have read way more profiles than I care to remember. One of the most common things I have read is that they want an "honest man" and "not into games".
Well, here I am. Here I have been sitting. I had a long and completely honest profile on here. The couple of women I did message (and I said in my profile I was not one to just send out dozens of messages) I played no games with. I was honest with everything, no games and yet somehow "the only thing" they wanted ended up not being the only thing they needed. Who knew!
I have had some wonderful chats with good hearted women that I wish lived closer because unfortunately distance does matter in a relationship.
The biggest problem I see on this and any site like it is people listing countless things they want and expect from anyone on here before they will consider giving them a chance. We are none of us a "perfect" puzzle piece that will match exactly with each other.
There was a time when away from this cyber existance; out there in the real world, we would meet a person we knew nothing about and start a relationship because some little thing about them caught our intrest and that was enough. What made the relationship strong and lasting was learning about each other and growing as a couple by finding things you could do together as you went along.
I've removed my profile. It did no good having it all up here anyways. You want to know something just ask. If you're interested, do not be old fashioned, do not wait for me to message you first. I'll say it again, I am not going to message dozens of women on here. That is just not in my nature to do.
I know dating to get to know one another comes before the commitment of a real relationship. I just don't want to go on a date just for the sake of dating. If you're not dating with the hope of finding a real relationship to last out your life with as I am then please be honest about your intentions as I've been with you.
I will give you this; I AM a good man; I HAVE a good heart; I have a GOOD head on my shoulders; I WILL be honest; I WILL be true and faithful. If these qualities are not enough, if you need more from a man before you'll consider any chance of a relationship then I wish you the best in your search for there is no worse fate I feel than to have to live a life alone.
If you've read this then let me thank you for your time. You clearly care enough about anyone you consider to want to know more than the superficial list of "I like's" and that makes you a better person than many on here. :)