I am funny, easy to be around, athletic, intense with the things that I do and that I have a passion for, sarcastic, easy to talk to, strong willed, affectionate, have a big in: Someone who has a great sense of humor, witty, intelligent, athletic, honest, attractive/fit, very unselfish and giving, spontaneous, good family values, stable, secure with themselves and their life, Laid Back, likes to try new things, someone that is real, someone that takes care of their body, and someone that believes in unconditional love! Big turn off for me is women who are materialistic and fake. No gold diggers either. I'm not picky am I? Of course this is simply my ideal mate! I don't believe there is such thing as a "perfect match". Nobody is perfect....we all have our faults. I believe to make any serious relationship work that you must be willing to look within to find what YOU must do to improve yourself instead of always look at you partner to fullfill your every need. Perfection does not exist! Relationships are not easy, they take work from both parties....... lots of communication, ability to compromise, sacrifice, ability to laugh at one another, etc. Don't sweat the small stuff! All relationships will have their ups and downs, but if it's worth it you will fight through it and enjoy it. If you have something "good" you should hold onto it!