Update: i am NOT looking for a one night stand or a FWB. I enjoy sex but that doesn't mean that is what i am looking for. If you only want sex, please don't bother to message me. Thank you. On that note:
I'm a pretty easy going person who enjoys everything. I am not here thinking I'm going to find the love of my life. But I am open to possibilities, because you never know what you will find.
I'm attracted to men and women but that doesn't mean that i'm down to be with you and someone else. I want to meet people who are open and honest about what they want, and if they don't know, that is ok (I sometimes don't know what i want either) but be open about it.
I'm not clingy nor do i feel like i should jump through hoops to get your attention. You either want to get to know me or not. I'm not easily hurt nor am i easily impressed. i go with the flow and what happens--happens.
I've been in an emotional rut. I suffered a great loss recently and I'm slowly trying to deal with that. It's hard, but I know the importance of not closing oneself off. It's not healthy. lol.
I'm hoping to meet someone that i can enjoy dinner, coffee and an occasional movie with. Someone that is easy to get along with and who doesn't take themselves too seriously. (And I know this is the internet so i'm not asking for the moon, but a little genuine effort in the approach is appreciated.)
I enjoy playing softball and volleyball. I also like to watch movies and i definitely like to watch the Spurs!
If you've read through all this and are still interested, then go ahead and introduce yourself--we'll go from there.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Dinner, lunch or coffee--something that will allow us to talk and get to know a little about each other.
Or just surprise me.