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DISCLAIMER - NEED NOT APPLY. - Heavy Drinkers, Cigarette Smokers, ARIES, and Men with CATS (I am very allergic sorry) DISCLAIMER NEED NOT APPLY. No Offense meant, I just know none of those things are a good match for me.
I am true Sagittarian (and all that means) and a Tiger (Chinese zodiac)......QUITE the combo I have to say.
Spiritual in the sense that I have no doubt there IS a higher power, (was raised Catholic and Serb Orthodox).
Mostly I believe in GOOD and karma in that what goes around comes around. So I live my life that way.
I absolutely LOVE LIVE MUSIC, my discretionary income is spent on concerts, music festivals. I much prefer going to a Concert (I call them shows) than to a bar. The added bonus - going to a show by oneself doesn't have the same stigma as going to a bar by oneself. Music I like and shows I patronize (if you see me at a show SAY HI!) Reggae, Rock, zydeco, New Orleans type music....some favorites, The California Honeydrops, Michael Franti & Spearhead, ALO, Imelda May, Pink Martini, Amy Winehouse and so on.......
I am a SF Native, I love my city and I love to travel to OTHER places.
A few of my favorite places, Italy, SF, Puerto Vallarta, Sonoma, New Orleans.....plenty more to add to that list.
YOU - The most important thing I am looking for in a person is:
Self-Actualized (ooooo a psych term to research :)), a man's man, a man who knows himself and is comfortable with who he is and comfortable with a strong and powerful woman and embraces that in her and is passionate about love life and love and music. Age appropriate please! I did the Cougar thing before it was The Thing.....4 years in either direction of my age would be my floor and ceiling. Gorgeous YOUNG Studs need not apply, I CANNOT believe those words came out of my mouth!
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me: My soul.
The first thing people notice about me: I really can't say but I can say they DO notice. It’s an energy thing. A Tiger Sagittarian, it's what I like to call a double whammy.
A little more about me:
I love and am loved, I can't presume to know what others think and could have fun in a box, I spend a lot of time by myself and am ok with that, my discretionary income goes to live music, I see ALOT, music is very healing to my soul. I want to fall and be in love I want to be motivated by my partner and I want one plus one to equal three. Another way of saying synergy means the sum of the parts is greater than the whole.......
My ideal date would include an invitation for some live music, concert, and small local venue preferably, along with a meal before or during or after.
I believe that in this scenario you can learn a hellovalot about a person in one meeting, PROVIDED however, you are paying attention!
Just think……………………… live music venues typically introduce things like, well, LIVE MUSIC (are your tastes compatible?), FUN people, RUDE people, liquor (how does one handle theirs?), dancing, standing and get to know you.... chatting session between sets…..all opportunities for sizing up your date and figuring out whether or not the two of you create Synergy……and want to have a SECOND date…..
Then there is the old safe 1/2 hour coffee date....always well.....safe........
Best of luck in your Search!