Oh so you decided to read my profile. Interesting, I am finding most Men just like the photo.
Photo was taken New Years 2012. Yes my stats are true and honest!
DISCLAIMER - NEED NOT APPLY. - Heavy Drinkers, Cigarette Smokers, ARIES, and Men with CATS (allergic sorry) DISCLAIMER NEED NOT APPLY.
No Offense meant, I just know none of those things are a good match for me.
I am true Sagittarian (and all that means) and a Tiger (Chinese zodiac)......QUITE the combo I have to say.
Spiritual in the sense that I have no doubt there IS a higher power, (was raised Catholic and Serb Orthodox).
Mostly I believe in GOOD and karma in that what goes around comes around. So I live my life that way.
I absolutely LOVE LIVE MUSIC, my discretionary income is spent on concerts, music festivals. I much prefer going to a Concert (I call them shows) than to a bar. The added bonus - going to a show by oneself doesn't have the same stigma as going to a bar by oneself. Music i like and shows I patronize (if you see me at a show SAY HI!) Reggae, Rock, zydeco, new orleans type music....some favorites, The California Honeydrops, Michael Franti & Spearhead, ALO, Imelda May, Pink Martini, Amy Winehouse and so on.......
I am a SF Native, I love my city and I love to travel OTHER places.
A few of my favorite places, Italy, SF, Puerto Vallarta, Sonoma, New Orleans.....plenty more to add to that list.
YOU - The most important thing I am looking for in a person is:
Self Actualized (ooooo a psych term to research :)), a man's man, a man who knows himself and is comfortable with who he is and comfortable with a strong and powerful woman and embraces that in her and is passionate about love life and love and music. Age appropriate please! I did the Cougar thing before it was The Thing.....4 years in either direction of my age would be my floor and ceiling. Gorgeous YOUNG Studs need not apply, I CANNOT believe those words came out of my mouth!
I really can't abide cigarette smoking, however, I am not opposed to the other stuff on occasion.
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me:
The first thing people notice about me:
I really can't say but I can say they DO notice. Its an energy thing. A Tiger Sagittarian it's what I like to call a double whammy.
A little more about me:
I love and am loved, I can't presume to know what others think and could have fun in a box, i spend alot of time by myself and am ok with that, but should probably get out more, my discretionary income goes to live music, i see ALOT, music is very healing to my soul. I want to fall and be in love I want to be motivated by my partner and i want one plus one to equal three. another way of saying synergy means the sum of the parts is greater than the whole.......
My ideal date would include an invitation for some live music, concert, small local venue preferably, along with a meal before or during or after.
I believe that in this scenario you can learn a hellovalot about a person in one meeting, PROVIDED however, you are paying attention!
Just think……………………… live music venues typically introduce things like, well, LIVE MUSIC (are your tastes compatible?), 420 (Some people HATE cigarettes but not 420, myself included), FUN people, RUDE people, liquor (how does one handle theirs?), dancing, standing and get to know you.... chatting session between sets…..all opportunities for sizing up your date and figuring out whether or not the two of you create Synergy……and want to have a SECOND date…..
Then there is the old safe 1/2 hour coffee date....always well.....safe........Oh and one last comment....if you are some young hot stud, good for you, please do not bother sending me messages, i won't read or respond to them once i see from your profile you are 21 or 35......(4 up 4 down is my floor and ceiling). If you want to MEET ME, send me a message. Just clicking a button is not enough. Best of luck in your Search!