I am drawn to creativity and spontaneity. I like to live in the moment, as passionately as I can. Looking to connect with people who also enjoy indulging in the unplanned, of-the moment, open minded spontaneous approach to discovering what life has in store when we don't take things so seriousely.
I respect people working towards their goals, open to learning, taking on challenges rather than being too complacent which stunts our motivation to strive to better ourselves. I surround myself with people who can motivate and inspire me, and I hope to have the same effect as well.
I like to support the local artists, the underdog music and independent films, discovering new shops that inspire me, and spots to eat that makes my mouth water. I like to laugh out loud, enjoy art of sarcasm and don't do well dealing with unnecessary bs or drama. I avoid confrontation as much as possible, and generally live by the rule that I treat people the way I want to be treated.
I love being affectionate and sharing my interests and make the most of the time spent together with the people around me.
I am not looking for a serious commitment right off the bat, but sick of cadual dating scene which lack substance. I am open to meeting new people and hope for it to naturally evolve to a frienship, companionship, maybe even a "relationship"..though dont want to have to label it or define it.
So somehow I wind up here, like most of you, knowing well that POF has been dubbed the WalMart of dating sites..seeking to connect with intriguing people who might share similar interests, to find someone to hang out with and enjoy eachother's company. Physical attraction and chemistry is important, but having common interest to share OTHER than physical carnal pleasure makes it worth the time and energy.
If you have pictures of yourself shirtless in your bathroom, in your briefs, flexing your muscles infront of your shower curtain, please save me the trouble and not waste eachother's time.
And no offense, but I like wearing my heels so if you are below 5'11", I prefer taller folks....
I am not an equal opportunity employer. I appreciate the interest, but please think before you drop me a line. And don't be offended because you don't get a reply.
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My interpretation of spontaneity does not equal to being wrecklessly promiscuous.
1. Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners; indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.
2. Lacking standards of selection; indiscriminate.
3. Casual; random.
4. Consisting of diverse, unrelated parts or individuals; confused.
I am not a cheap thrill seeking twenty-somethings trying to 'get laid' for the night with random strangers. I wanted to be clear that 'hitting me up' for random hook ups is NOT what I want, how much clear need I be?
I am not looking for a sugar daddy or am i looking to be someone's sugar mama. Please don't waste time contacting me if you are younger than 26 or over 45 who may be assuming I'd enjoy having a sugar daddy. Age is just a number...but let's face it, maturity as well as being on similar stages in our lives is more relatable.
Please don't contact me when you are not even residing in SoCal. I am NOT interested in pen pal or long distance anything, and ESPECIALLY not interested in video chat/webcam action, I am sick of people who think this is the way to communicate. I want to meet real people, not endless messages back and forth.
I am not being judgemental, just laying out that I don't play games. I am a no B.S kind of person and is seeking honest people who don't hide behind a facade. Of course I realize you can't take things too seriousely on this site (plenty of freaks.com is more like it), but far too many people appear to be vicariousely living through their alter ego and don't live up to their claims or how they wanted to project themselves to be. If I've hit a nerve, no harm meant- you can move on to the other million "fish" on here.