Update: June 2016
So I'm pretty fickle and have quite the Attention Deficit for singular dating at the moment. I'm mainly looking for hijinks, shenanigans, nomads, and as much authenticity as online dating allows. I could spout out a ton about myself, but you're probably more concerned about what I'm into.
I'm way attracted to shy/introverted men that have something to say, but prefer smaller quieter locations in which to enjoy sharing that stuff to say.
I enjoy a great shag as much as the next sentient. HOWEVER, I consider it a delightful byproduct of intelligent interaction w/ interesting/intriguing people. I value an authentic human connection above all. That doesn't have to always come under the guise of happily ever after or schmaltzy sentimental romance. The dude abides! I dig facial/chest hair, gingers, foreign accents, Carl Sagan >Jesus, 5'1 & 3/4, sapio macrophile, chef, science dilettante, polyglot, ENTP, lived abroad, Kinsey4, polyfidelitous, TX native - in need of a tour guide, mischief makers, and pub crawl buddies, and/or a guy who seeks a FLR. Buddha is my homeboy for the moment! Legit!
And secret confession: I find shy socially awkward tall lanky beta S.T.E.M. nerds to be sexier than basically anything. Your need for solitude and the complexities of mind which we could exchange is like so FUGGING HAWT to me...no joke! So you there tall and geeky...call me!!! I mean message me!@
You should message me if...
...you identify with either of these articles:
You dig Lilliputian, voluptuous, sex positive and ethical (because you are too), kink-centric, sapiosexual, nerdy, sassy, women. You're a pragmatic, nerdy, tall (I'm a macrophile) guy, bonus if you're a bit heteroflexible and/or Jewish especially Sephardic or Mizrahim...or British or Scandinavian...it's my new obsession! I'm a sucker for the intellectual conversation and big bottom lips and cheeky senses of humor. I prefer long heated discussions on rationalism, Karl Marx, and the crude humor of Zach Galifianakis. Although intelligence is a must there has to be an innate raw magnetism that is carnal...physical attraction is really a fundamental element in the dating game, n'est-ce pas?.
I enjoy the concept of traditional-ish dating or at least meeting, making an authentic connection based on more than just physical chemistry, and, having a friendship before there are any intense social expectations or exchanges. I am a woman that believes that a true connection takes time (as in a few months to a year unlike most horny booty-callers) and develops organically with ease, and that the genesis of authentic love stems from sincerity, honesty, loyalty, friendship, respect, and several dashes of lust (armfuls of rather). Reciprocity is absolutely paramount and a principle by which I live.
I would like to date casually and openly, maybe compare the factory models, weigh out my options before I do ultimately settle down, and even that concept is a subjective, fluid, non-conforming notion for me. I am completely forthright and transparent in my intentions for a committed-ish relationship, but, take a deep breath, Hun, my version of settling down doesn't mean we have to fill out the red tape bits or get married.
Just be normal-ish...simple tea or milkshake for starters...no pressure. If that goes well a game of capture the flag in the park.