Most important trait in someone is kindness. If you are entitled, superficial, vain, and treat service industry worriers rudely, I want nothing to do with you.
I'm a sucker for the intellectual type, i value ration and logic and healthy skepticism. I'm a proud Atheist Humanist. I'm also a closet nerdette. I speak fluent French and Spanish and have managed around Rome with my Italian, and on occasion I read Greek. I prefer long heated discussions on Karl Marx, Secularism, Anarchy, and the crude humor of Zach Galifinakis. I sometimes swear like a sailor but it's only skin deep, I really do have deep rooted principles I live by and teach my child to live by. Although intelligence is a must there has to be an innate raw magnetism that is (cough cough, ahem)....carnal...(wee blush for good measure) Physical attraction is really a fundamental element in the dating game, n'est-ce pas?
I don't get easily attached or believe in love at first sight. I'm one of those women that believe that a true connection takes time and develops organically and with ease, and that the genesis of love stems from a sincere and loyal friendship. I would like to date around compare my options (notice I did not say sleep around), but I am looking for an eventual partner to share in my joys and and to shower with affection. I am upfront in my intentions, settling down doesn't mean we have to fill out the red tape bits or get married. I miss having a special someone to come home to and to wake me up in the morning with your warm body next to mine and a neck nuzzle for good measure. I am with out a doubt one of a kind and am not ashamed or afraid of it. If a challenge scares you, by all means walk away. I have no time or patience for it game players or jackholes. I don't jump head first or leave myself very vulnerable initially or with much ease so be patient!
I love laughing. But my purest joy which is the source of all my laughter is also my greatest masterpiece, my magnum opus...my amazing little girl! Without her my joy would be incomplete and the source of my purest laughter would be non-existent. We are a package deal! Yes, I'm a single parent, I hate that some find that word a pejorative, for me it is my badge of honor. Single motherhood doesn't mean I have excess emotional baggage or had her out of wedlock or some other negative connotations that come out of the phrase "single mom". I'm not looking to find someone to take care of. It is just that we met, married, had a child, and grew apart. I'm quite capable of paying my own bills.
So really something to ease the awkwardness and the slight douche baggy feeling you have of going on a blind date. If that require a glass or six of a nice Cabernet, just have a taxi back up to take your liquid infused courageous behind home. I am a fan of dinner, especially of the exotic variety. I genuinely like museums especially of the freak show-ish genre or hands on science exhibits. It's summer I would be down for a trip to Lagoon or any other place that involves hours of immature revelry.
Go to a university lecture or science exhibit that will leave you mind effed and thus feeling a bit frisky! Remember I am a nerdy girl!
Go to ________ (fill in the blank) token coffee shop and grab a latte and have a conversation.
Go ding dong ditching in a very affluent neighborhood.
I don't really care as long as it's fun and there aren't expectations.
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