If you *know* what you truly want is to find that deeply connected love, with someone real, (who, it turns out you can actually count on) .....maybe we should talk.
Here it is.....
I'm hoping for one extraordinary man, who will become my best friend and a whole lot more; my heart's counterpart.....who is happy and honest (because if we don't have real honesty, there's no point in even trying). He is easy going, not perfect but his Christian faith matters to him, he has integrity, loves to laugh, and make me laugh...someone with a positive outlook.
I believe it's crucial to really get to know what each other is all about. Chemistry is a huge deal...and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out if it's there or not. Someone intelligent, kindhearted and loving..passionate about things that are important to him, and who is able to express himself freely with me...who is available emotionally to truly love and BE loved. Someone affectionate, who is familiar with the day's events, and is somewhere in the moderate to conservative end of the spectrum on political views. Someone I don't want to live without~who happens to feel the same way about me. Not willing to settle for anything less than something wonderful, and real--based on truth, transparency, loyalty and really good love. I know what I seek is not common, and chances are slim it can be found on line....but that is the goal. Nothing common. Nothing ordinary.
Some of the things that make me happy~~kindness... good, sincere people, dogs..traveling...music of all kinds (well...except metal) , concerts, museums, fairs, antique shops, coming home, lying in the dark talking long after we should have been sleeping, the ocean..the sound of birds singing...texts or calls for no reason other than "I can't wait to see you later"....the sky on a clear night..incredible kisses....just spending time with my special one...doing anything...or nothing at all. Don't we all wish for similar things? Just to have that one person in your life where it matters not what you're doing..just as long as you are together. Who notices when you may have had one of "those days", holds you close, reminding you that everything will be ok and that they are there for you. Someone who has your best interest at heart and is the one you just KNOW you can count on, who knows beyond doubt that they can count on you as well, no matter what. Too much to ask for? I hope not.
Anywhere conducive to free flowing conversation. Maybe just a drive to somewhere beautiful with a cup of coffee in hand. Anywhere, really that allows us to relax and start to learn about each other. After all... dating is all about getting to know what makes your potential companion tick...what brings them joy and fulfillment in this life, as well as finding out if that "thing" we call chemistry exists or not. How else would we know if we are a good "fit" or not?
( If you're a serial dater, addicted to "the hunt", I'm not the girl for you, but if you're looking for the real deal...who knows? )