I think it's about time to change this crap again so here we go...
If you can't handle large amounts of sarcasm and cynicism, I would recommend continuing your search. If you can't tolerate metal or fast aggressive music, don't waste your time, that is my primary outlet for anger and I work in retail so I listen to it constantly. If you think Bullet for my Valentine or any kind of screamo is metal, and you want to talk about it, I will probably berate you about how absolutely crappy it is and missing the entire point of metal. (Little hint, if the anger in the music is directed inward, it's not metal. It's whiny, crybaby crap for people who think they're tough, but cut themselves for attention).
Does the cynicism bother you yet? Trust me this website isn't helping that part of my personality.
I don't love my job, but I have one (and it's good enough to pay all of my own bills). I love my family, but don't live with them. I consider myself a fairly independent person in life. Can you see where I'm going with this?
Yes, I'm a bit of an ***hole sometimes. More often than not, I'm just trying to get a laugh. I have several career aspirations that I'm working on at the moment, and that is leaving me relatively stressed and limited on time. I work 45-50 hours a week and it's primarily second shift.
If you're somehow still interested by this point, go ahead and message me. I'm actually much nicer than this description implies, but I'm not going to make any promises, so messenger beware...
If you are somehow still reading. I will reiterate that I'm much nicer than this. I treat my significant others like gold. I have become very cynical and jaded about this site (and in some respects with life in general), so that is why I was such an ***hole with the beginning of this. Basically, I am working a lot of hours, going to school (online so I can actually "go to class") for accounting, trying to get promoted and/or get another position within my company. I still have time, but it's hard to meet someone outside of a bar when I don't have time to get involved in other activities outside of work when my schedule varies as much as it does. I wont lie, physical attraction is important to me because eventually (no matter how short or long of a period of time) sex will become a matter worth considering. If I'm not physically attracted to you, I wont want to sleep with you, and personally, I want to settle down and have a family one day...
Something casual where we can hear each other talk. I'm open to new experiences or old favorites and I'm pretty easy going so if you have a great idea, awesome, otherwise something like coffee or dinner or drinks works for me. As much as I love movies, I think that's a bad first date only because you don't have much opportunity to get to know each other.