You know what's powerfully, sexy? A sense of humour. A taste for adventure. Silliness. Perfect Day by Lou Reed. Appetite. Smart-ass comebacks. A quick wit. A woman who realizes how beautiful she is.
I am happy, mature, silly, self aware, sponge for random facts, master of karate and friendship for everyone, and a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind.
I am also 36 and not whatever age my profile is saying. And I can stack clean dishes needing to dry like a Tetris master.
If you are still reading this far, then let me tell you what I have learned from my online dating experiences. This is not online dating. This is online meeting someone. We see each other, wave through the interweb and then work to meet in the big blue real world. If we get to that point, then I will earnestly talk to you and listen to who you are as opposed to putting you through a 20 question interview. If we likey, then we likey. If we don't; then cool, give me a hug or high five and good luck to you again. We are all looking for love so lets all help each other out on this adventure.
I think some people put too much pressure on first dates when meeting people online.
I believe it should be a casual and informal scene where we can talk and actually learn who each other are first. So a coffee, drink or walk is great for me.
If we click, then we can do something interesting for date 2.
So no pressure, be cool and calm and just enjoy our respective company.