UPDATE: well it didn't take long for my fantasy girl's true ways to begin to show through her actions! Why must people portray to be someone that they are not? I say people but I'm speaking of the women I'm meeting. I really don't understand what makes a person think that they will be able to hide their real selves as the relationship continues a person can say whatever they wish to say to glorify themselves but their subconscious actions and reaction to circumstances will always expose the real person! I am no one to pass judgement on any other for being who and how they may be, as we are all unique individuals with our own desires but it becomes quite disturbing when someone attempts to deceive me by acting out of their character and pretending to be some thing they know I am looking for. Women please be yourselves don't over glorify or highlight your ladylike morals no one expects perfection but everyone has the right to expect what they hear from the person that says it! A person cannot live in happiness if there is deceit or dishonesty within them or their relationship if you're here just for dating or meeting guys then say so don't pretend you're being exclusive with several as you're seeing which one you like best down the road. I refuse to let the wrong woman keep me from finding my "Ms" Right one!
I believe that most people only write what looks and sounds righteous when they describe themselves in boxes such as this. When we embark on new encounters we are oblivious to the new situations and challenges that brew up ahead. It is these unknown situations that bring unknown reactions many honorable and some less than. I am guilty of both I am not perfect but I am not heinous either. I was raised by two very affectionate, respectful and honorable parents that loved their children to the fullest they stopped at nothing to ensure that we (their children) grew up with integrity and honor, this meant stern discipline. With this said, I proudly profess that my every intention is continue my life with the same virtues by which I was raised and truly believe that if you treat me with the same respect that I treat you, you will have a person in your life that will do anything within his power to give you the world.
I've tried to explain how I think so perhaps it will say who I am, to share my hobbies is much easier done since hobbies do come and go I enjoy the outdoors- fishing camping hiking and just plain exploring is fun. I am willing to try just about anything that doesn't include jumping off a perfectly good airplane and surrounding myself with spiders or sharks. So if you really like doing something that's fun don't think I wouldn't be happy to try it and even continue to partake in it even if I didn't enjoy it if it was something my baby wanted to do.
I am beginning to lose hope that there are any women left that can be honest and faithful, have respect for themselves and consideration for others. I now wonder what happened to the times when a couple could agree to disagree or even have an argument and NOT AGREE without having to see my girl leaving or calling it quits! When any two people are together for any long periods of time they will disagree, thats a reality but a disagreement should not overcome or blind us from what brought us together...
...my dream in life is to find someone that will grow to care and love me as much as I do her! I realize that a person cannot expect anything from the other that they themselves aren't prepared to or already giving. If I ever find a woman that realizes she is not perfect and cannot expect me to either but instead accepts me for who I am then I most likely will have found my happiness
I believe that on a first date the setting must support the ability for good conversation. To me the purpose of man outing is to enjoy the other persons company since first dates are in a sense part of the compatibility or getting to know each other process I learned by trial that movies are OUT! (I had a first once ask me if I "could please just shut up" omg I could not stop laughing after that I could not stop laughing! I told her that it was "not good when those words were used on a first date, that it usually meant there would not be a SECOND date". There wasn't but really I can't blame her but I was wanting to talk about her I wanted to get to know her but in all fairness we were at the movies and she wanted to watch the movie. So I pulled out my phone and called my buddy! ...... JUST KIDDING! geez might as well laugh than cry. so yeah anywhjere we can talk and get to know each other since my date will be my STAR ATTRACTION!