I know this will surprise and even turn off a lot of ladies on this site: I'm not just here to get laid. I'm an easy-going, generous, dominant, secure, non-jealous, non-possessive, honest, sincere, happy and confident guy with no kids, no liabilities, no baggage, free to do whatever I want, any time I want (mostly), with whomever I want. The only way that's possible in my life is because I'm a polyamorist, and I'm only open to poly relationships (not based in agenda or possessiveness). My open minded partners will support me, my desires and vice-versa. So, there it is. I'm saving you the discomfort and feelings of inadequacy down the line. But if you've made it this far and you're still not appalled by my style and way of thinking, it's possible that you're at least curious, and for that, I can't wait to hear from you. Cheers.
I'd prefer to meet a potential new friend or lover some place where 2 mature adult human beings can visually and mentally connect to see if there's REAL attraction and chemistry. A casual (cheap or free) place with plenty of light. It's a first date, not a princess shower. :-)