I'm not your usual horny guy trying to get laid. I'm here for that rare gem, non-traditional, out of the box free thinker who actually lives it, not just says she is. We're all where we need to be. Show me, don't tell me.
I'm also not the smartest guy you'll ever meet, but I've noticed this: The whole premise of online dating is pretty effed up by definition. What ends up happening is that a whole lot of hotties in high demand, and milfs only trying to either get some male attention or to make the same mistakes with monogamy, posting their best selfies while sitting in cars, or with their pets and children (indicating to a guy that he will never be an emotional priority), or those who are a little out of shape and will only post a dozen selfies of their face. Most girls on sites like these (and yes, that may include you), will not typically approach a guy even if they find him attractive or interesting, with something of substance to offer them. Instead, they prefer to sit pretty waiting for hot guys to approach them so they can have that perception of power of choice fulfilled, avoiding the rejection they'd be happy to dispense to the ugly guy they'd never mate with. But too often, they go ahead and pick a guy by his appearance, and/or all the academy award winning BS mojo he writes on his profile anyway. In other words, they'll use their lack of good judgment and discernment, only to criticize and bash those eventual a-holes that succeed in fooling them in the end. What a great gateway to start something "long lasting" and "meaningful", isn't it?
Something real, where 2 mature adult human beings can meet for the first time and see if there's REAL attraction and chemistry. A casual (cheap or free) place with plenty of light. It's a first date, not a princess shower.