be-tru: Multi-faceted soul seeking common depth.
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
North st. paul, Minnesota
40 year old Man, 6' 1" (185cm), Other Religion
Caucasian Sagittarius with Brown hair
be-tru is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors degree

At work, Nov 2014

I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Me
Before you read any further please read this: At my core I am attracted to women with darker complexions... golden, bronze and black. To all the ladies here with pink or porcelain skin; you are absolutely beautiful, yet I am simply not drawn to you. Namaste.

This above all: to thine own self be true. - Polonius, fm. William Shakespeare's Hamlet

Short Version:
I'm a pretty rockin' guy with his own share of idiosyncracies and quirks. Not perfect, but pretty amazing in my own right.

Shortest Version:
Tea over coffee

"Scientific" version
Human Dynamic: Physical-Mental
Astrology: Sagittarius
Strengths: Strategic, Achiever, Connectedness, Input, Learner, Adaptability, Restorative
Four Temperaments: Melancholic
DISC Personality: Strong inner motivation to assertively create and implement new ideas. Handles pressure well - strives for excellence. Innovative but tends to avoid risk taking.

Oddity: My spirit recognized Ireland as "home"

What I’m doing with my life:
Exploring, practicing, laughing, falling down, getting back up, shining, helping, giving without expectation (mostly), graciously receiving, loving, focusing, experiencing joy, working, dreaming, setting boundaries, opening my big mouth, eating crow, meditating, praying, singing, crying, eating new things (crow is not new)...

I am career-oriented and am seeking a woman who is as well.

Doing my best (which keeps getting better) and making mistakes; learning as much from them as my current state of conscious awareness allows.

I’m really good at:
Showing up, on time.
Seeking new experiences.
Leading without improperly asserting.
Making connections.
Trivia and board games, as my ability to remember interesting but fairly insignificant information is considerable.
Making people laugh ...whether I want them to or not.

The first things people usually notice about me
My baby-blues and "incredible" eye lashes.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: sci-fi, thriller, documentary
Netflix: House of Cards, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Parks & Rec, Dr. Who

The six things I could never do without
Good friends who will tell me when I'm f***in' up
Proper punctuation ("It's time to eat Grandma!")

I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future of The Pale Blue Dot and how I can contribute in a positive way by being 'for', not 'against'.

How to LIVE The Prayer of Saint Francis (rumored to have been written by Fr. Esther Bouquerel)

On a typical Friday night I am
With my beautiful kids, serving within my community, enjoying Netflix, enjoying a good book, or dining and conversing with my friends in their homes.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am willing to admit to all of it, but I choose not to share it here.

First Date
Coffee and jaw-wagging

You should message me if are curious. can make me laugh. have (or ever been told you have) an 'exotic look'. are an Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, or a fellow 'Saj'. are not in a hurry. enjoy taking the lead in planning our next adventure. be-a-freak where it matters the most. ;)

BONUS: You are an ENTJ or ESTJ, as I am an E/INTP

And finally, I don't mean to sound arrogant here, it's just that...

I really want to be WOW-ed. In these last few years of dating, I have seemed to take the role of the "wow-er". I realized a few years ago that if I want to meet someone who is awesome-sauce personified, that I have to become the very same. I am, and it keeps getting better. I strongly believe in the importance of continuous self-improvement (mentally, spiritually and physically), mixed with a healthy dose of humility and self-acceptance for where I am at present. .

I don't want to chase you. I want to be challenged by keeping up with you. I want you to be challenged by keeping up with me. I want a friend, a partner, a lover, and a playmate.

Are you as comfortable in an evening gown as you are in the deep of the BWCA? Then you're my gal.

For a dream vacation, would you be absolutely torn to have to choose between exploring ancient ruins in South American jungles or two weeks in Paris? My kinda woman.

I want someone who dreams big, walks tall, and is willing to LEAP out of personal comfort in exchange for the big growth and experiences that await those who dare the leap.


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