I'm a pretty rockin' guy with his own share of idiosyncracies and quirks. Not perfect, but pretty amazing in my own right.
I work full-time, volunteer in my community, and spend time with my kids who live 200 miles away. I'm a sane responsible and busy Gent, but... I'm not in a position to commit to an LTR at this time.
Seeking an intelligent, sensual woman who leads a similar lifestyle for good conversation, evenings out (ex: comedy clubs, dinner) and adult playtime/fun (hint: I give excellent lemongrass oil massages-- candles optional). This would be a monogamous arrangement.
While I understand this is not appealing to most women here (from the very judging messages I have rec'd), it takes the right chemistry, honesty, and openness for this to happen. I have done this once before years ago, and the woman and I are still very warm and dear friends.
What I’m doing with my life:
Exploring, practicing, laughing, falling down, getting back up, shining, helping, giving without expectation (mostly), graciously receiving, loving, focusing, experiencing joy, working, dreaming, setting boundaries, opening my big mouth, eating crow, meditating, praying, singing, crying, eating new things (crow is not new)...
Doing my best (which keeps getting better) and making mistakes; learning as much from them as my current state of conscious awareness allows.
Things I could never do without:
Good friends who will tell me when I'm f***in' up
Humility & Faith
Hope & Trust
Love & Meditation
...and damn good sex.