Age: 45
Long Term
Seringa64: Without an emotional link, you have nothing at all
Smokes Often with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Concord, New Hampshire
50 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Other
Caucasian Cancer with Mixed Color
Seringa64 is looking for a relationship.
High school
Free Thinker
University of Life

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Julia
First, I'm sorry if some girl/women in your past have cheated on you/lied to you or treated you less than you deserve. I am not those women, I am me and I won't compete with the sins of their deeds, which I didn't commit. Nor will I spend a lot of time proving I'm not them. If you are jaded to the point to pre-judge the women of your present by deeds done by the women in your past, please save us both the time and energy and not contact me , you obviously aren't ready to move on. I am looking to date and make friends first. Isn't that the way it's supposed to be? If that friendship grows naturally into more, I'd consider it a blessing. I'm so ready to make a fresh start connection :)

What we find in a soul mate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with.

It's always better to know the truth about something, then not anything at all. It hurts worse not knowing, than to know. Be honest and upfront. Communicate.~ Our lives together should be improved upon because of the involvement we have with each other. .

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. Everyone you meet comes with baggage, find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack.
What good is a life, with no one to share, the light of the moon, the honor of a swear?
If someone wants to be a part of my life, they'd be there. So I'm not going to save a place for someone who doesn't make it an effort to stay. I Love Life :) I have the freedom to finally taste all that I have been chasing :) and I wish to share. I am a simple yet complex woman who craves a good and solid grounded man. I could sit here and write all the typical stuff like love sunsets, walks on the beach, picnics, blah blah blah. I do, but who doesn't. :) The best way to find out about a person is to meet and see if it feels right. Getting to know someone is far more complicated than simply filling in this space with likes and dislikes. Everyone has those, and there are always things one person likes to do that the other may not. That's where the commitment to a person comes in. If you care about someone, you either learn to enjoy their likes, let them enjoy the things they like on their own, or just be happy that your together doing whatever your doing. If two people enjoy each others company, it doesn't matter what your doing, right?.
I am a happy and wild woman. I love to dance and sing. Going out is fine with me. I have lived a lifetime and I still have a lifetime to live!
I love men with long hair but if your a good looking man with short or no hair, I can dig that too :) When you really matter to someone, that person will always make time for you. No excuses, no lies, and no broken promises.

It seems I am happiest in a serious relationship with a person that shares both my open-mindedness and realistic nature. I desire something solid to stand on in a relationship. People spend a lot of time grasping at the wished for reality, but it does no good to dwell on your dreams and forget to live.

“We can only appreciate the miracle of a sunrise if we have waited in the darkness” Unknown

The human race is so diverse in it's value system, that we forget about the human heart and soul.
We think we believe what we know, but we only truly believe what we feel.
Yes, I am very passionate :)

~You must not lack the courage of your convictions

I do come with a warning label: May cause, laughing, crying, anger and fun. Do not take if you have allergic reactions to the truth.

I drink socially :)
*If you have a love affair with alcohol, do not contact me. By that I mean, every damn day of the week, and live to drink and drink to live.
(Let's face it, if you have an addiction, that is your primary relationship!)
Please, if you are fresh out of rehab or you need to go to rehab, do us both a favor and do not contact me. I'm so tired of men lying to me just for their own, ill gotten gains :( No one has any right to drag another into their sickness.

I'm not afraid of hard work or breaking a nail! I grew up on a working farm so I know how to do most anything that needs doing. I can stack cord wood and plant a garden. I'm gentle and caring. Happy and Wild! I love to laugh and I'm funny and smart! :)

A sense of humor "is not a luxury," It is a vital organ for survival :)

I really enjoy fishing. There is nothing better than walking down a river bed in your reef runners angling for Trout! I collect music memorabilia. I have an extensive collection of tunes and I would make a most excellent DJ!! Laughing, Smiling, Listening, Caring, Kissing. I'm a pretty good cook. I love to play Cribbage! I was on a Dart League for 8 years and I loved it! I love to Dance! I dance every day. I love to sing too! I'm good at solving Mysteries, Puzzles, and my Spatial ability is out of this world ;) I read a lot. :) I am an Excellent care giver!

~Things I could never do without~
First and Foremost, my sense of self :)
My incredible dog, Mada
Good Coffee! Life is too short for Yukky Coffee!!!
Laughter - Always Laugh :) It's so good for you!
Human Touch- A Life Of Love Is One Of Continual Growth, Where The Doors And Windows Are Always Open To The Wonder And Magic That Life Offers. Leo Buscaglia

"Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand."

"Changing the face" can change nothing ..but "facing the change" can change everything..!!

First Date
Two halves do not make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship: it takes two wholes.
* Please have a picture of yourself, Thank You :)

It is the food which you furnish to your mind, that determines the whole character of your life. ~Emmet Fox~

Any relationship between any two people can work if their focal points are the same..if they are looking in different directions they will never reach the same destination..this is ok..understand it,accept it,and love that person as u say goodbye because we are all trying to find our way..we are in constant motion always changing our thoughts and feelings as we go...

In a true partnership, the kind worth striving for, the kind worth insisting on, and even, frankly, worth divorcing over, both people try to give as much or even a little more than they get. "Deserves" is not the point. And "owes" is certainly not the point. The point is to make the other person as happy as we can, because their happiness adds to ours. The point is -- in the right hands, everything that you give, you get.
True intimacy is rare -- that's what makes it precious. And it involves the revelation of one's self and the loving gaze upon an others true self (no makeup, no fancy car, no defensive charm, no seduction) -- that's what makes it so damn hard. Intimacy requires honesty and kindness in almost equal measure (a little more kindness, I think), trust and trustworthiness, forgiveness and the capacity to be forgiven . . . It's more than worth it -- just don't let them tell you it's bliss....;) For if it were easy, everyone would be doing it. It's the hard, that makes it great!

If you make time to list all the things you are grateful for, and you feel the feelings of gratitude, you will feel amazing every day. Your frequency will be high and you will move through your days in love with being alive, bringing joy wherever you go, positively affecting one person after another.
When you live a life like this, everything you want will come before you even ask.
May the joy be with you :)

Be yourself and you'll never have anything to hide
Live your life and you'll never have any regrets
Be happy and cherish everything life brings you.
Good or bad.

Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called, Falling in Love. Because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.

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