First Things first:
I am so ****ing tired of you pricks messaging me and talking me that because I'm black I should date black men. **** you. I know what I like and what I don't so don't message me and ask why. Don't send me angry messages because I don't have time for that bull shit. Ok? Let's continue.
I will not respond to messages that r written n short hand lyk dis or any variation. I don't speak ratchet, hood, thug, ghetto, or barely passed elementary school English. I am a fairly intelligent person, and I expect nothing less from any one I befriend/date.
Here we go:
Ok I'm upfront. If you aren't my type I will tell you and wish you luck on your search. Cool. I don't date black guys. So save yourself some effort. If we do talk and we hit it off. You should know I'm loyal. Almost to a fault. Thats ok though. I love my friends and my family. No one is perfect and its the people that you love the most that tend to hurt you. I've accepted that.
Nothing about me is perfect, so if that is what you are looking for you stopped in the wrong place. I can tell you I'm not the smartest, but I read and I'm going back to school here soon. I'm not a skinny/thin girl, my stomach is not flat, and I don't have that thigh gap girls rave about, but I take care of myself eat right, hit the gym, and take my vitamins. The point is I don't believe in self pity. I believe in finding something I don't like and fixing it. In my guy I want to see the same or a similar mentality. You don't have to be a genius, and you don't have to look like superman (that can't hurt your chances though). There can be no self pity though. Ambious is good, have a goal, an idea some place to get.
I'm a music nerd. I listen to just about everything. Not rap. I hate rap. I LOVE country. I go Line dancing once or twice a week. Other thank that In my free time I read, hang out with my friends. Every weekend I try to do something a little bit different. Every one says they aren't like every one else. I can show you better than I can tell you. I like video games even the ones I'm bad at (FPS), I like to play sports like football, soccer, and ultimate frisbee (not in that order), I like Paintball. Actually I love paintball. I'd go every week if I could afford it, but I can't I also haven't played in a few months.
Look I know my profile is long. Quick summary. I'm a tatted up, line dancing, paint balling, video game playing, book reading, black girl from Florida that doesn't date black men/boys. I fight tooth and nail for my friends and family. I'm real sarcastic and witty but I'm sure to put a smile on your face if you give me the chance and if you don't? I'm damn sure I'm gonna keep on a rollin. Thanks for reading. Happy Fishing.
“I can get my head turned by a good-looking guy as much as the next girl. But sexy doesn't impress me. Smart impresses me, strength of character impresses me. But most of all, I am impressed by kindness. Kindness, I think, comes from learning hard lessons well, from falling and picking yourself up. It comes from surviving failure and loss. It implies an understanding of the human condition, forgives its many flaws and quirks. When I see that in someone, it fills me with admiration.”
“When you start to really know someone, all his physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in his energy, recognize the scent of his skin. You see only the essence of the person,not the shell. That's why you can't fall in love with beauty. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it, want to own it. You can love it with your eyes and body but not your heart. And that's why, when you really connect with a person's inner self, any physical imperfections disappear, become irrelevant.”