I'm a fun loving person. I can challenge you to better yourself and to grow as a person. I'm a realist and I don't put much hope into finding the right person on a dating website. So, I'm being trying to be optimistic and willing to try. I'm a laid back guy who doesn't take anything seriously, but I know when to be serious. (There's a difference) I'm a very understanding guy, but don't take my kindness for weakness. I don't have kids, never married, nor have a crazy ex. i hate to lie and i hate being lied to. id much rather you shoot me in the face with a BB gun than lie to me. So don't insult my intelligence with that crap.