It doesnt matter what ppl write here. I have been on this site for years and have messaged dozens and dozens of girls telling them I like things abt their profile and giving appropriate comments. I have never been ignorant and always been decent. Having said that, I have never had any woman write me back. And no woman has ever contacted me. I realize women constantly have guys messaging them saying things like "hey what's up" and" how are you" or" hey you wanna ****".... but I dont think Im like that at all. I talk abt nice things or make convo abt family or work. And I get no response. If im ugly will someone just tell me and b honest already. I had a nice profile written here but I deleted it just to write this. I don't feel I need POF to find a girl, but I think for as much effort that I had put in to contacting different women that appeal to me having gotten no responses is a little strange awkward and messed up. this makes me feel as if something about me posted in my profile is really messed up or makes me out to be somebody that people do not want to know. I would enjoy Somebody Anybody contacting me letting me know what my problem is in their opinion or just contact me to see what kind of person I am and what kind of communication we could possibly enjoy having with each other.