I am a high tech engineer by trade, but I keep my spirit soaring with many different music projects. I love to laugh and be silly. I can be very serious, but most of time I'd rather play! I'm well into my life so I'd have to say that if I have a goal it's to be happy! I really just want to enjoy life! I swim, free dive, workout, ride motorcycles, play music, and cook when I get the opportunity. I enjoy life one day at a time so I don't have any "plans" of where I want to be in the future. I am gainfully employed, and have been for the better part of 35 years. I don't make tons of money but I am very rich indeed. My friends are wonderful and frenetic and we share an abundance of love and excitement. I keep myself busy if I am able to, but always make time for myself and those I love. Most of my tastes are on the fringe, but I do mainstream very well too. I am a simple, blue collar man who loves to dress up formal and attend benefits. I have a VERY open mind and will try just about anything once! Please don't put me in a box, I won't fit well and you'll find that tomorrow it will look like I belong in a totally different one anyway. Let's just get to know one another and have fun!
It seems that I need to address the separated (4 years) issue ... the only reason I am not divorced is so I can provide my ex with health insurance ... it's the right thing to do. Legal divorce is quick and clean when the need arises. I am ready and available to meet someone and see where it goes ... where ever it goes. I list myself as separated because ... well, it's the truth ... and isn't honesty what every woman on here wants?
First meet ... coffee or drinks ... some thing simple and comfortable. But in the spirit of of conjecture ... I don't have a standard first date prepared, although I did when I was in my twenties and I thought I was SO cool. The same one for every first date ... how lame is that? While I am very young at heart and in spirit, I'm neither young nor disingenuous any more! I prefer to cater to what seems we would both enjoy. Let's see what we come up with after we talk for a while!