I am looking for a connection with one special woman. A mental, spiritual and physical connection. A bond based on mutual respect, understanding and attraction. Best friends, but more than friends, confidants, lovers. The one for me to be there for, and the one that will be there for me. Is that possible, at this point in my life? I think so, I pray and hope so. I think my life up to this point has been preparation for that kind of relationship.
I am just a guy with old fashioned values. I believe there is such a thing as right and wrong, and not just some endless area of gray. I believe people should be self reliant and take responsibility for their actions, and be willing to live with the consequences of those actions without blaming others when things do not work out as they had hoped. I believe that if a person says they are going to do something, they should do it.
I think a man should be strong and be a protector. I am attracted to a woman that is strong and self reliant , but I also want for the woman in my life to feel safe, and to know that she can count on me, at all times. I am affectionate, I like to to hold hands or give a woman my arm when walking, and I love kissing. I like to pamper my woman, and do little things that let her know that I am thinking of her and that she is special in my eyes. I miss so much having a woman in my life that makes my heart skip a beat when I see her or she is near, one that pleasing her gives me all the pleasure I need.
I love music and music has always been a big part of my life. I enjoy live music, although these days I much prefer the smaller venues for listening to and experiencing a band, rather than the mega concerts of my youth. I also love a good laugh and enjoy seeing the absurdity in things. Humor is essential and can go a very long way in dealing with what life throws at us, , especially when one is able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously. I hope the first part of my profile doesn't make me sound stern or too serious, because I really do like to have a good time, and I enjoy getting out and doing things with that special someone. I am looking for a woman that can appreciate these types of qualities.
I have a very strong work ethic and I am successful in my chosen field of endeavor. Although I have a home in Chickasha, I work out of OKC,and with most of my projects being in the metro area I spend a good portion of my time there. I am very energetic, early to rise and late to bed. I have been blessed with good health , and although I see myself working for some time yet, I hope to be able to have more free time in the not too distant future, and to be able to have more time for other, more important things. . It would be so nice to have a woman in my life with whom I could share my time and my heart, a woman that would have the desire to share her time and her heart with me. I know my profile says I am wanting to date and that I am looking for fun and companionship, and the last part of my profile sounds like I am looking for a long term relationship. I am looking for both, and I do not think that the two are mutually exclusive but rather two different points along a path, if one should be so lucky.
" The forces that affect out lives, the influences that mold and shape us, are often like whispers in a distant room, teasingly indistinct, apprehended only with difficulty." C. D.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Casual dinner, someplace quiet, in order to be able to have good conversation. The purpose is to get to know one another, and see if there is a connection, the kind of connection that makes us both want to see one another again.