I dont think it really matters what it says here. One time i changed it to say i won the lottery and all of a sudden i got 10 emails saying how cute i was. Another time i wrote that i was a movie producer and suddenly i have more emails. But for some reason when i write what i really am like, and be totally honest, not one email for months. If i send an email out its because i read a girls profile and thought we would get along. So I've come to the conclusion that this site is really hard to find someone. I hate partying, not a big drinker, work is important to me and i suck at going up to girls and striking up a conversation. So where does this leave me? A truely good guy that doesnt kiss on the first date, someone who opens doors for women. And not because im trying to impress them, but because its the right thing to do. A man that can fix your car, stop by your moms house because i heard she needs help cutting down that annoying tree in the front yard. A man you could tell stories to your friends about and make them jealous. But yet i sit here often thinking that a real, down to earth, WOMAN is not out there. Ill admit, im pretty picky but i feel i deserve the same in return. A word of advice ladies, give that guy that emails you at least a chance at a conversation. Keep in mind, not everyone takes awesome pictures of themselves, i certainly dont. I dont have time to try and take one that makes me look so great that ladies fall off their chairs. I know women get hundreds of emails on here, but you should really try reading the profiles and maybe saying hello. You could be very suprised what you find out.