A man born and raised in Boston. A hard worker that barely have the time to socialize as often as I'd want to. That's the main reason why I'm on here, is to socialize. I don't have an exact motive on what I'm looking for, but I am welcoming to meet new people, seeing where it goes upon that. I'm an Aries male, and I'm quick to snap back depending on what I'm going through, though I do have a open mind to submit when I'm ever wrong. I don't claim to be the perfect gentleman. Nothing in this world is perfect, due to not needing to improve anything that's perfection. Which means, I realized that I have lots of improving to do, as well as adaption. I'm also not one to spit game, use the Laws of attraction, art of seduction, or psychology to embed myself to someone's heart. I rather be as natural as I can be, even though I am highly interested to psychology.
I'm a conversationalist. I'd speak to anyone depending on their approach. The more meaningful a message is, or how fluent the conversation is, the more I'll be into it. It's kinda hard to just reply to a, "hi" with something long and profound when I'm not the one who made the first approach.
My mind is very open. Nothing in the world can steer me off. I believe in people with intuition, and I'm highly spiritual. I meditate, and pray every night. Though, I'm more urban than anything. I listen to rap music mostly, tho I love Old school R&B, Reggae/Dancehall, even a little bit of spanish music. I'm open to anything in terms of music.
What I'm looking for:
A woman that's always herself is key to me. Honesty is a requirement, as I'd be the same. Communication is key. Being able to vibe out and speak about anything is a great way for us to be able to gravitate towards each other, seeing that we'll truly know if we're compatible for each other, as friends or even more than friends. Someone who's willing to not rush, and to feel things out. Going with the flow. A woman who's willing to grow with me, instead of waiting for me to have it all. I don't need someone perfect, nor do I have a requirement on how her appearance have to be. As long as we're attracted to each other mutually. I am a sucker for a beautiful smile. An intelligent woman is a turn on to me. Not just a woman who have her things in order, but one who I can have a profound conversation with. A sense of humor is also a turn on! Someone who likes to laugh, joke around, and just enjoy life with a smile. Positivity is a major plus. A woman who never let things get to her.
What I'm not looking for:
Someone who's into drama. Ex boyfriend issues. A woman who lacks in communication. A non conversationalist. In terms of a relationship, I wouldn't feel comfortable dating a woman with more than a few children (I'm sorry that's my preference). I want kids in the future, and most women with that many don't want anymore. My preference may change depending on the situation or if it's a great vibe we have. I'm not trying to be a notch on someone's belt only being a fling.
As a 30 year old man, I'm more relaxed. I'm not about partying too often, clubbing, and may go to a bar every once in a while to socialize or hang with a few people in my circle. I'm at a point where I'm just laid back, and only wish to handle my priorities. I do like meeting new people, and I have the open mind for settling if we're compatible. Otherwise, if we're fit to be friends, I'm open to that too. I'm not into trying my best to impress anyone with words here, I'll save that for if I like you. Until then, let's go with the flow, and see where it goes. Don't be afraid to message me, and I'll be looking forward to hearing from you.
Our first date would depends on how we click. Based on something we have in common. It can be for a walk, out to lunch or dinner, we meet at a park to talk in person, ect... it all depends. To be completely honest, the more we mutually like each other, the more thought I'd put into it. I can't give an encore during the first date while we're still figuring out who we are to each other.