I have lived in Central Florida for over 20 years.Not one to move around, but I have lived in Louisiana and traveled around the south east U.S.
Hobbies - Learning, Name: Frank
Goals- To make as much money as possible & less putts more holes in one as it applies to everything in life.
What makes me unique - My love for life and all within it. Note: Please take it with a good sense of humor when reading most of this.
I like all kinds of music it's all human expression.Aside from Baking I play guitar and sing, and I write my own music, I also play and write parts for all of the instruments I want in a song and record them.I see this is a good way for women to organize how they date, to keep business separate from pleasure as well as go at their own pace, clubbing can be a little fast paced for just about anyone these days it's not the 70's anymore.
Not a fan of tattoos or piercings for myself.These days I prefer not to drink at all but will do so socially, I prefer harmless natural herbs that are legal that are just as good.Not talking that fake pot crap nor real pot, talking more herbs used since ancient times, all in the avoid harm yet have fun vein.
I say on here this is for hanging out purposes due to I live with my parents and in the end no matter what happens it is how you hang out that counts. When I say hang out it can be something as simple as getting a conversation going over the e-mail here, I'll start the conversation here, care to join the conversation?
I like women that are not afraid to know themselves inside and out and can accept the truth they have found or may find out about themselves, fear not who or what you are nor what you desire.I am not looking for anything kinky by the way.
I like to exercise when it is reasonable to, and live as healthy of a life as possible, I like natural preventive medicine but I'll go to the doctor if I have to. And most of all as the mind goes so does the rest of the body. I believe that everyone has a little unique piece of the puzzle of life and the more people you get to know and interact with the more pieces you will have thus the better you'll see things in this world.
But to know more people you don't have to interact with them personally you can also read about them or look throughout history, I also believe that all a human being can do in this world has already happened, in some part of the world at some point in history it has all happened, it is how you do that which has already happened differently that is the challenge.
Chemistry I am into, it is like placing your finger in front of the bird it either naturally climbs on or it doesn't, this I learned very early in life.
There can be such a thing as too late in my experience.This place is also a good way to get tigertitis! Ladies just a small tip due to todays technological advances it would be most kind of you if you could take a picture not too revealing though but something in order to clearly see you're not some transexual!
Check out my Band Mix page @ www.bandmix.com/fm-talent-department/, there you will find some of my songs and some videos too to give you an idea of what else I do aside from baking. Plus I'm looking for a female bass player. My band's facebook page @ http://www.facebook.com/pages/Graveyard-Rose/265450043491838?sk=wall , check it out & click on the like button!
Here's a newer theory for you, what I would call the biggest sin a person can commit socially and that is being agressive.
Socially agressive, is not the same as phisically agressive, can be verbal or body language attitudes and so on. Usually the most socially agressive person is cast aside from a group of peers. It can be considered anything that crosses the line of disagreement.
Due to "the individuality" has no place truly in the social setting for it to stay healthy, disagreement in a social setting under the permit of individual taste can get old real quick in a social setting, defeats the purpose of doing what you're in agreement with not the individual taste, but it always manages to creep itself in there, and when it does it's not time to argue, it may simply be time to go home and till next time.
I've discovered through research that women learn to not be so agressive socially from a very young age compared to men, some men learn some don't is more how it goes, but unlike women it's not in man's nature to be socially fit if you want to pick a name for it, but it's never too late for man to get socially fit being stop with the agressive stuff if he understands the reason for it by his own will, you can't force it, but once he may have decided science says it's never too late for a man to be somewhat socially fit to the likes of women, but will never be able to catch up.
In a simplified form it all scientifically goes with how ladies can tell the difference between play time and work time from the moment they are dropped off at school for the first time, and that ability to tell that difference between play time and work time due to changes in the environment slowly refine into the smoother social skills of most women, and some men learn this difference between play time and work time but some never do and as that goes so do the social skills. Not knowing this in a competent manner is why men tend to suffer from jealousy stress and women don't, and usually as picky as a woman is about sex within over all circumstances with one man is how she is with all.The criteria much like the song remains the same.
To keep it short before doing anything that can be considered as social it works best if what is going to go on is something everyone is in agreement with doing. Social isn't just a big bunch of people social is simply not an individual activity. Also academic achievement may not be the best way to gather social skills about somebody, it's far more basic than that, an individual's social skills are at the core of being able to competently tell the difference between play time and work time.
Communication alone is not good enough, you have to bridge the right gap with your communication, in the case of this website it is good to list what you're looking for clearly or what you're not looking for.On that note I'm not looking for stress. Guessing can be stressful as well so I'm not into guessing either. Nor into making others guess.I prefer to be contacted first, I have always done things this way, if you don't contact me first just to say hi or ask something you're too shy for me.It allows me to see if you have the general level of self motivation/esteem I desire to deal with in general.Besides, from reading ads here, it's clear that the ladies are very busy ,It's a time is leisure thing.It's not that they're selfish about their leisure time, but protective.Not an easy sale to make, it works best if they see something they like.And it's proven when ladies here have lines like "Life is too short, and live life to the fullest".
I see it says to talk about the first date, and there really isn't an ideal situation.Except for one that simply falls into place. And again one has to be aware of the differences between men and women and what I call the 25% vs. the 75%.
For example 75% of the reason a man is looking for a woman is sex vs. 25% of the reason a woman seeks a man is sex.And that goes to the who has more leisure time as well, a man has 75% more leisure time than a woman who only has 25% leisure time to dedicate it to sex compared to men.
Just like it's 75% of the reason a woman is looking for a man for reasons other than sex, mostly dealing with all of those things that a man can do or facilitate that a woman cannot and to have more leisure time that way and why we get any vs. it's 25% of the reason a man seeks a woman for reasons other than sex dealing with those things that only a woman can do or facilitate that a man cannot, since a man already has all of the leisure time he needs, in that sense man is not looking for a leisure extension or assistants.
And explains the dynamics of what the friendship is worth.Meaning what takes up 25% of the time spent vs. what takes up 75% of the time spent.
Let us not forget that the woman has to deal with 100% of a pregnancy vs. the 25% of a pregnancy the male has to deal with.Which happened during the 25% of the friendship.Along with other monthly reasons why sex as a motivator to seek friendship for women is at 25% vs. our 75%.And those women who actually enjoy sex are real good sports given the reality of it all.
Having said that, one cannot be too rigid about circumstances,except for that one finds to be harmful.
And realize everybody has had their experiences which define that harmful, but there is such a thing as since something didn't work out for you doesn't mean that same thing won't work out for me. Yes I am old enough to drink... honest!