Hello,Im here because like alot of men im trying to improve my chances of meeting the right girl for me .Im putting in serious effort to meet someone truly special.I know we all have baggage its how we carry it that makes the difference.Im not a player and really hate those guys on here who are and make it hard for the rest of the really good ones.I dont smoke or do drugs.Im hard working and Im self employed my job includes traveling and time to enjoy the places i go,so if you like to travel and see new places. It also gives me some flexability,and plenty of time for the right girl.I like country music,but if the setting is right I like a wide range of music.I know most people stop at the pictures and decide if they would like to contact that person.Ive been guilty myself.I know I take terrible pictures and do look better in person.Ive lost some weight since they were taken,but this is all I have right now. and present myself well.Im not shy and am attracted more to girls who are outgoing. Are you still with me,good.If I take the time to leave a message its because I see something in you that I believe in my mind that we have some things in common.I hate this game we all have to play to find someone we can or want to spend our time with.Come on Ive heard it DATING SUCKS but we have to do it.We are all busy in our lives and our kids are very important but we are here to find a m
mate,friend,lover,lets face it life is easier as a couple.Dont be afraid to drop a simple hi if you would like to talk,I will look and I will get back.
Im going to put this as a post script,I cant understand the women who say they want a relationship,but say that the children come first,I have a full time job,Im going to school to finish my degree.What I want to know is where do you have any time for a relationship.I understand our children are important but wouldn't a perspective mate be important.If we are going to seek a relationship shouldn't we be prepared to put in the energy and time it deserves.I have sent messages to a number of women that I felt we would be very compatible but to no response.Help me out here,what do you women want,tell us.I know this will make me unpopular with some but hopefully will get some to thinking.drop me a line..I take terrible pictures I really do look better in person.theyre just all I have.I know my worth and what I can bring to the table,how about you.unfortnately no one seems to look beyond the pictures