jstlkn4u11: I've seen the fireworks!!! Are they in your eyes?
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Rutland, Vermont
52 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Scorpio
jstlkn4u11 is looking for a relationship.
High school
Class Clown

Relaxing at a pizza place.

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Widowed Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Welcome to my world
(Note: I know this profile is not the best, but I think it gives a good sense of who I am. Not trying to BS any one, so, take me as I am as the old saying goes, and I know the pics are older but I look about the same. I'm not great at getting pics taken either).

Did I get your attention with that hookline, did I? Looking to meet a lady, one that has her priorities in order,and can be real. Sense of humor and honesty are a must also! My last relationship that I was in lasted 19 years and she has passed away(04/25/2011). And yes, I do miss her and I loved her very much, and now I feel that I am ready to start a new relationship , I guess that I still have my convictions/morals, I don't just hop from one relationship into another. Our 19 year old (as of 02/2014)daughter has moved to be more independent. I am a person that stays for the long run, I do not run away when, or if the going gets tough, though it had crossed my mind a couple of times. lol. I have a quirky sense of humor, just look at my pictures, I can wear a hat, Hahaha! But seriously, my pics show me at some of the toughest times during my life, I made it through! A little bit beaten, but not out yet. I could use a helper in my corner. lol. Going to put better pics up sometime, just have to learn that photo-shop program. lol ,( I only had the pics that are up, for now). Better looking in person, I think anyways !!! lol. I can laugh at myself.
I am very truthful,shyish,loyal,faithful,honest, funny(I think),sometimes just kinda stupid (in a good way), compassionate and passionate. I have looked at profiles on POF before, I wasn't ready to jump into anything too early, because it would not have been fair or nice to the person that may have liked to start a relationship/friendship with me. Now I am ready, so.... What can I say,,,I'm real !!! I would lean towards saying, "Take a chance", However, I do believe that I am not just a chance, and I could be the one that you are searching for, and you, the one that I'm searching for. You never know .
I am not the kind of guy that will try to fill you with a lot of BS, well. maybe just a little bit,(Chuckles), I don't think that I'm pretentious, I am a humble person, but a good one.
Someone using my computer had my income at the wrong amount, it's fixed now. I was hacked I tell ya !!!
If I viewed your profile but did not message you, it is ok that you message me. We'll see what develops!!! Have some patience, please.

PS:I'm a sucker for pretty eyes!
Thanks for looking! And Good Luck !!! Here is something that I was just thinking.... I'm looking forward to when we meet for the first time,a little nervous and awkward. But we can overlook those little things, that jumble of butterflies, and maybe some ramblings on, minor in the scope of life.
A smile on our lips, a slight glint in our eyes, or maybe they twinkle, Happiness will show in both of our eyes, and everyone will know when they see us, for how our eyes will twinkle!!! (c) (*Not joined in a needy, clingy way).

Those are my feelings about meeting someone, hoping that we are perfect for each other!!! Clyde Fitz...The 'right' choice, hahahahaha!!!

Update: My daughter passed her Driving Test with out any mistakes or points taken off!!! And she didn't think that I was teaching her right !!!
Maybe now she will appreciate me and the things that I try to teach her ??? Probably not !!! LOL Now I have even more free time !!! Now she is hardly home. So I am the cat sitter for most of the time.

My daughter graduated high school !!!

PS: When I find someone special and I feel it's going to be exclusive, I will be taking down my profile.
Just so you will know. I had a person say they thought that I was still hung-up on my late-wife. My answer is; I'm sorry you feel that way, I loved her. If I didn't, it wouldn't have been so hard. But, think of it this way, Do you want someone who truly loves you, or is back looking for another before the ink is dry on the Death Certificate ? If they can't be alone, then maybe they used the person to not be alone, and to take care of them until the next sucker? I would like to find a person who truly wants to love and be loved deeply, and is willing to go it to the end, but is truly in love, not in it for a game. At least I waited until I felt I was ready to be that person that I want,to another again !

Am I wasting my time? Seems like no ladies really want to meet someone. I'll stick it out for a lil while longer, maybe she's thinking about me?
I want to meet someone that is not a player either. I don't want to fall for a lady and find out that she was just filling time with me. I have nothing to prove to anyone but myself, and when the lady that meets me, has come to understand me, and I ,her, we will have a great life.
My profile is a little long, i just want to give a bit of who I am. Don't believe what anyone tells you about me !!! lol
Thanks for looking, and reading my profile, I hope you find whom you are looking for !!!

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Have you ever made a fool of yourself because of being nervous? Well, that is a sign that you are "REAL"! If you have, JOIN the club. I've done it and thankful that I have. Because, how you react to someone that does "mess-up", shows a lot about your true character. A good sign would be if the other person just laughed it off, and maybe jested a lil bit, and didn't recoil in angst at your OOPS moment. Maybe that would be a test that a person could use when meeting someone for the first time in person. Hmm, It might save a lot of time....We can correspond before we meet if you choose to do that. Besides, I'd rather meet someone whom is a bit shy, maybe not the smoothest with words, and is nice, then I feel like they are real, and not someone who has the gift of scamming someone else. I think women may feel the same with that, do you?
An unusual thing to do, would be a ferry ride or a boat tour on Lake George? Lake Champlain Ferry?
Something that it is not too long and if we hit it off, we can hang out in the area?
I've never been on a boat tour of Lake George, so it would be a first. Hope to meet soon !!! Take care, enjoy life!!!
I just decided to add the following...
Do you like pickin' nightcrawlers? I'm lookin' fer a good picker!!! lol
If you get joking around, like my nightcrawler kiddin', we should be a darn good match !!!
Are you nuts? Peanut,cashew, Macadamia, etc.? What type of nut are you? Tell me, and say why you think so.

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