These are my desires, thoughts, etc. Please don't be offended by what I have to say. I'll start off by saying that I'm not looking to hook up. To all of the guys out there looking to hook-up, there are so many women on this site that are willing to give it to you. If you aren’t serious about getting to know me, please miss with the mediocre conversation. If you’re that bored in your relationship, make it better because clearly most of you guys are in relationships. I’m not a side chick and never will be. I value myself way more than you know.
Being that I'm 41 and have 2 adult children, I find myself in an awkward stage in life. I usually attract guys in their early 30's. The problem with that is most don't have any children and are thinking about having them. Well that crosses me off the list because I will not be having anymore.
I love to travel and this is a biggie for me. If you aren't financially stable to travel like I do, we're not going to be a good fit. If you've never been out of Texas or can't obtain a passport, we're not going to be a good fit. My travel this year goes as follows: I started off the New Year in Miami (also a must, you must love Miami), went to Chicago and Vegas in April, back to Chicago in June, back in Miami in July, Atlanta end of July, Cancun for my birthday in October and I haven't decided on New Year's Eve yet but more than likely Miami unless someone has an idea.
Physically what's on my wish list, I like tall men. I'm 5'5 and wear my heels every day. Just to compromise, we can start at 5'11. Athletic, you're probably saying I know she didn't. Yes, it's true I’ve been out of shape for a minute there and now I'm in the gym twice a day. Remember, someone can always lose weight but you can't fix (you know what I'm saying).
Attributes I insist on, intelligence, handsome, confidence, just a tad of arrogance, well dressed (I REPEAT WELL DRESSED), witty, smart, funny, down to earth, can talk shit, kind, a man's man or can pay to care of what you don't want to do lol.
I’m not into gold grills. Again don’t take offense. What you choose to do your body is on you. Me not liking is it is me. That includes straight teeth because if you’re in your 40’s and haven’t corrected it, that’s on you. I know plenty of people in their 30’s and 40’s with braces.
Now to those that I’ve blocked a 100 times, please stop reaching. It will never happen. Some may say, damn she’s been on this site a while, forgive me I still have standards and not interested in wasting anyone’s time. Please don’t waste mine. A closed mouth doesn’t get fed. State what you’re looking for.