I definately want to be successful, now define successful. For every person it is different. I like to do all kinds of things from watching movies, playing pool, cards, writing and trying to complete my first novel, and currently my favorite hobby is golf. Don't narc it until you've tried it. I like all kinds of music, and I am a decent musician with a voice that would suprise you if asked to sing. My goals are to keep moving forward and finally see what is out there for me, other than that I'm pretty much an open book, if you have a question just ask.
Really not sure. I read somewhere that it is not the destination, but the journey. I would hope to apply that same philosophy to a first date. A better way to phrase it would be to say, "It's not the destination that is important, but the person that shares the adventure with you." I know that sounds very vague, but the truth is that the first date is a meeting of two souls for the first time and the location of the date or the activity is simply the vessle. No, I am not saying all this to get out of going somewhere nice, so don't worry I'm not a cheep person, but know that if we go out it's because you interest me and I hope I interest you. Otherwise we're simply wasting time.