As a women in this day and age I am in the position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship, I want someone I can chill with, laugh with, and enjoy my spare time with. If we don't like each other there is no point in going to the next level, friendship first...that's a turn on. Sitting on my couch like a bump on a log won't get you in my bed.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of his life.
I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation and mental simulation. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unevenly yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to know what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity when dealing with relationships. Lies and games are not my idea of a strong man.
I need a man who is family orientated.
I need someone who I respect in order to be submissive. I must respect him; I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of business. I have no problem being submissive to a man who is worthy.
I'm not looking for him he will find me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made women to be help-mate for a man. I cannot help a man who isn't willing to help himself.
I'm worth that much.