worth_the_effort: Looking for honest, smart, funny...(= sexy)
About
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
City
Langley, British Columbia
Details
49 year old Female, 5' 5" (165cm), Non-religious
Ethnicity
Caucasian, Libra
Intent
worth_the_effort is looking for a relationship.
Education
Some college
Personality
Hopeless Romantic
Profession
Publishing







I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets  



About Me
Back after many months away from this. A friend told me that since what I've been doing hasn't worked out for me recently, I should try something different. I'm not sure how to go about that, but...
A quick note before I do this properly...I'm not able to be on for more than a moment or two during the day (m-f), so if I mark you as a fave it's because I read something in your profile and what to read the whole thing later when I have time.

Still trying to figure out what to say...but this friend also suggested I try saying what I'm NOT looking for so maybe I'll start with that.

Smoke makes me stop breathing...for a couple of days...so, NOT looking for a smoker (of any kind). Not being judgemental, but I like to breathe. Call me crazy!
Racist, bigoted, homophobic...are not things I can relate to or tolerate. We all have preferences and beliefs, but those are ones that aren't attractive to me.
Lying is a deal-breaker. (Does that even really need to be stipulated?!)
Ditto, infidelity.

OKAY! Enough negativity ;-) What am I looking for? A relationship...which of course starts with dating. The tricky part (for some, apparently) is that I'm not interested in dating multiple men at the same time, and I'm not interested in BEING one of many at the same time.
If you are intelligent (education has little to do with it), have the ability to laugh at yourself (and with me), if you don't dislike animals, if you have a job...(doesn't really matter what it is, as long as it's legal), if you are able to carry on a reasonable conversation and are in the habit of doing what you say you will and enjoy physical affection and the little, everyday intimacies of being with one person...fantastic!

I'm a pretty easy going, low maintenance woman. I'm fiercely loyal to those who've earned it, and value my friends and family. That being said, I'm also just fine with solitude...mine usually takes place near the ocean. I have varied tastes musically...including rock of any description, depending on my mood...Broadway musicals (no, I won't make you listen)...alternative. (doesn't extend to country or rap though). I drive A LOT and between my ipod, cfox, 1040 and the traffic station, I survive!
Not into bars or clubs, but I do enjoy a good pub (even if there isn't a game on!). NHL, CFL and some less mainstream sports mean I won't object to you watching a game....as long as you don't make a habit of doing it ALL weekend. (well, you're welcome to, but I'll be outside doing something without you lol)


Oh, and I don't like that pic (it's from work website) there's something odd about it...but, until I get another one...there it is!

PLEASE say more than "Hi" if you send a message lol. It's not much to go on!



"I might not be someone's first choice,
but I am a great choice.
I may not be rich but I am valuable.
I don't pretend to be someone I'm
not, because I'm good at being me.
I might not be proud of some of the
things I've done in the past, but I am
proud of who I am today.
I may not be perfect but I don't need
to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away."







First Date
Casual and public ;-)


Mail Settings
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Male
Age between 42 and 55.
Live in Canada
Live within 75 miles.