Would you rather be with someone who looks HOT for today or someone who can make you feel great for every tomorrow?
As a nurse I pride myself in my ability of constant repair. I have a gift of being able to see what a person lacks or needs (physiologically). Although, I will never preach at you because only you live in your body and can determine what feels best for you for this moment.
It's important that you understand that I detest drama queens/kings and just simply don't tolerate it. I recently cut off one of my drama-queen-friends; it hurt my heart, but finally had to do it, couldn't take it anymore, (I'm only so resilient). I go to great lengths for my friends and pride myself on never over taking the "spot-light" even though I can. I try to make sure everyone shines and is having a good time. Yet there's just no place in my life for those that must create drama everywhere they go. In my opinion, they are truly the saddest people on earth; ever-searching, because of characteristic emptiness.
However, I do believe that forgiveness is what we are meant to learn. I feel our bodies are our temples that should be treasured and respected. We are most vulnerable of the things we fear. We lose the things we try to hold on too most. Yet, we are all put on this earth to grow and learn, to become resilient and respectful of one another. I was brought up to have integrity and virtue. I believe in constant growth and development.
What I am looking for is a smart man, someone who cares about his body; cares about keeping up. I appreciate those that can eat fast-food all the time and never gain an ounce, just be healthy doing it. Although I will never dictate what you should eat....We all make our own choices, right? But I could never let myself go and hope my man wouldn't either.
I want someone who is passionate about life. He should also be compassionate and with any luck, empathetic. Hopefully he was brought up with morals and reverence; taking pride in everything he does.
All-in-all, I’ve always believed that one's health and virtue are the most important things in life; those are the 'values' to be treasured and respected.......not monetary statures.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's do something fun and different. I'm likely the most open and resilient person you would ever hope to encounter. Tell me what intrigues you; we will surely find our commonalities from there. We should be great friends, then see where our passion might lead us. I'm most conforming and yet have many ideas of my own. I sincerely want to please and have an intense desire to make the most of everything life has to offer!