I'm a smart, confident person with a good sense of humor and I usually tell it the way it is. I love to make people laugh and I'm often at my happiest while surrounded by friends acting goofy. I'm looking for a guy who's a lot of fun, outgoing and active.
Some have called me a down-to-earth tomboy because I've always liked to play with the boys, whether it was on a playground, sports field or on Chicago's version of Wall Street. But I'm quite a girly girl too. I like to think of myself as an nice, all-American girl with a classic, East Coast/Midwest style. I embrace my differences from many So Cal women.
I came to San Diego from Chicago twelve years ago and I have good Midwestern values. I love living in my community where I'm involved in sports, the arts and civic volunteering. I'm blessed that I have great sons. Their father and I are friends and we co-parent well. I'm a hands-on, no nonsense parent. Raising men is serious business!
I know what I like in a man, but it's all about chemistry. In general, I like intelligent, professional men with competitive drive. He should be educated and athletic (I'm a Northwestern grad). I'm a sucker for a strong, athletic build! Also, I'm only around true gentlemen and I like confident and unpretentious men. Please keep it to yourself if you own a large boat, fancy car or airplane. I'd want to know who you are not what you have. Substance over stuff! Strong character and integrity are a must. If you have an edge to you that would be great! I prefer clean-cut and I don't really care for tattoos.