Time seems to be what people don't have to give any more in relationships. I like sweet honesty and straight-forwardness, as well as great chemistry, a great sense of humor, intelligence and fun.
I like to travel, go to pool and beach, watch movies, work out, family fun time, social gatherings...really about anything. I'm pretty laid-back, open-minded, spiritual, silly, and fun to be around. I'm big on chemistry so if there isn't any chemistry, sorry.
Because I know what I want, I don't settle in a relationship. I want a guy who has it together emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Who knows how to balance life and handle rough situations. Someone who knows how to care for a woman and treat her like one and not play games and isn't stuck in their past relationships.
BTW, my name is not Bertha.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I am up for any type of date. Examples include rollerblading, coffee, lunch, dinner, happy hour, beach, movie.