My first date needs is different from most. Example, the lady I was engaged to last fall. I met her on a socializing site where you meet people in a group setting. We had a few dates then she hurt her knee playing soccer. Had surgery and I ended up nursing her back to health. Yes, I stepped into a complete stranger life and did that. She saw the real me right of the bat.
That's why I'm not good at dating. Too much phoniness!!! My first date would be as the next one, untraditonal. Something that requires her and me to see past the mask!!! We need to know each others weeakness right up front and accept or reject or move on. I know this is not a typical dating style, but I'm tired of the games and not really interested in the dating world. Schedules also become a huge problem.
Honestly, I doubt many of you ladies will accept what I'm saying, but it is what it is. I'm a night owl, but haven't always been by choice. Honestly, I miss the emotional & phyiscial aspects of relationships. If that's scary to you, then I'm not your man. I know that's blunt, but is saves me time.