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I am seeking a gentleman who values a lady who is verbally expressive, articulate, affectionate, passionate & romantic. Please have a photo before you respond to my profile. My main interest is to find a great man. I do hope that you are on this site really actively seeking to find one lady, and not making the dating sites a pass time. LOL
I am interested in meeting a gentleman who respects women and treats us like ladies. I want an old school, God fearing, conservative, good hearted, playful, affectionate, loyal, sensitive, caring man. I am not attracted to a man who treats a relationship like a business, or a man who is not playful, not affectionate, does not like holding hands, or is self centered. I am not this type of person.
I am looking for a relationship. A relationship should be one of sharing. Having fun. Playing, holding hands while walking and expressing affection and respect towards each other.
I enjoy live theatre, movies, travel, day trips/outings, dinner theaters, concerts etc. I am a naturally caring, attentive, touchy person. Even as friends, not just dating, I will be caring and attentive. It comes natural to me. I always think about the other person first. I am very playful with the right person. If I cannot be playful we are possibly not right for each other.
I like everything that gets me moving, stimulates my mind, and intellect.
I lived in San Diego, CA. for many years. I grew up in New York. I moved to CT. after I retired from a very busy law practice.. People here are polite, but not as outgoing and friendly as people in California. I have joined community groups, I go on trips, group theatre outings, and lunch groups/dinners etc. We do have a good time. However, I am ready to find a good male companion (husband). Now that I am retired, I have time to pamper my man, and make him happy. I do expect him to do the same for me. Relationships are a give and take. I have been a widow for many years. I have been engaged 2 times. My first fiancé was killed by a drunk driver. My second fiancé I broke up with. He is a Marine 4 Star General. After several years of him being deployed and returning briefly it became very hard. I had lots of fun going to the White House and meeting people in High places. But being his fiancé was a very busy job. I already had a full time job. It was not meant to be. He is a good man. He will be ready for a relationship when he retires. Nothing more to say about this.
I am playful, laidback, calm, I never raise my voice, do not like arguments, discussions are okay. Conversations are the best. I don't smoke nor drink alcohol.. I would like to dance again. I have been a widow for 21 years. I have had a couple of long term relationships along the way. I am very kind, and think of others before myself. I am a practicing member of the Church of Jesus Christ of The Ladder Day Saints.
Speaking honestly, over the phone, is very important. It can save us time and energy if you can be honest and answer questions. However, many people are unable to speak about themselves. As we result, that leaves the only other option, an appointment to meet in person.
Meeting in person is critical since we are not psychic and photos do not always reflect the real person... Photos do not reveal personality, character, intelligence, eye contact ability, sincerity, body language is important...Lets go meet in person.
This is important no matter what type of relationship one is seeking to have. We need to get along and like each other enough to be able to have fun together. Respect for each other is a must. Thank you for reading my profile. I hope you will leave me a message so we can learn more about each other.
WARNING: Readers DO NOT have permission to use my profile or pictures in any form, current or future. If you do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and the matter will be subject to legal ramifications.
When the past calls I let it go to voice mail--it has nothing new to say...I prefer to keep my thoughts and my focus on the present. I hope you do the same.
Holding a grudge is letting someone live rent free in your head.
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