My life is interesting. It is either running at full throttle, or idleing at the light. When I have the oppertunity I really enjoy a fine wine, and good company, just kicking back at home and relaxing. I think of my place as where I escape the real world. I have a good job that I enjoy, and I'm working with good people who appreciate me for my work ethic and my ambition. I believe in setting goals, and achieving them... nothing can stand in my way. Career wise, I'm solid. I'm am working where I am because I want to be there, not out of neccesity. It is demanding, but also rewarding. Relationship wise, I have been, well, honestly, unsuccesful. I am a die hard romantic. I believe in movie moments. I want to have memories with my partner that are origional and meaningfull and connected. Everything I do, I do whole hearted. Sometimes it works for a brief period, sometimes only for an evening, but I am an origional. I am searching for that hit of lightning, that look, that pull on the heart that is inexplicable, but real. The girl that I have been waiting for.I've been knocked down a few times, but every time, I get back up, dust myself off, and actually am grateful for the experience. I believe that there is no such thing as a bad experience, as long as you learn and grow from it! I realise that life, or God, or whatever higher power you feel, will never set an obstacle in your path to defeat you, only to challenge you and make you stronger. That to me is what it's all about.To be totally honest, I'm not looking for any specific traits or attributes. I'll know who she is I think immediately. I'm not going to pursue anyone on here, and likely, I won't even make first contact.But maybe every once in awhile . I'm generally not that guy. I don't want to set any great expections, because it just raises the platform from which to fall. It'll happen when and how it should.I'm pretty open, so feel free to contact me.... I'm witty, confident, happy, and optimistic. I've got a sense of humor that's hard to describe, but I always am laughing, smiling and joking. Please don't try to make me take life seriously, I like living life to the fullest.