I am shy until I get to know someone. Call me old fashioned but I like it when the guy makes the first move. I am a very compassionate person who loves to help others. I give without any expectations. I love to be around family and friends. I have a close-nit family and group of friends that I've known since elementary school. I enjoy watching movies, dancing, playing pool, and bowling to list a few! My favorite sport is basketball which I enjoy playing and watching. I also love watching football. I find it a lot more fun/interesting if we don't like the same team but having that in common doesn't hurt!!! Just means you have good taste! Go 49ERS!!!
I am attracted to guys with a nice smile, dimples are a plus! The eyes also get me! I like open-minded people who aren't racist or egotistical. I want to find someone that wants an actual relationship, that enjoys being around friends and family as well as just hanging out by ourselves. I need a give and take relationship. I am so used to giving and giving and getting nothing or very little in return.
I am not high maintenance at all. I am independent and used to doing everything on my own. I am the type of woman that doesn't need a man, however, I would like to have one! There is a big difference between needing and wanting! I am very goal oriented and determined to achieve whatever it is that I have my mind set on. I am a good listener and problem solver. I can be very creative and I think I have the type of easygoing personality that makes me capable of getting along with almost anyone. I have been so focused on raising my daughter and getting my education that I haven't really been looking for anyone. It is hard enough to trust someone with yourself so it is even harder when you have a child. I am not into the bar scene because those guys are only after one thing and as much as I enjoy that aspect of a relationship, I would like the whole package. I don't want to rush anything so if you are ready for a wife, keep looking! Lol I eventually hope to get to that point but not right away.