I hope all is well. Thank you for stopping by my profile. I am back on POF after a year. I am single and looking for the simple things in life. I am looking for friendship first then if a relationship develops then everything else should fall into place. Just that simple to me.
I am not looking for Mr. Perfect just someone honest and real. I have been reading profiles saying stuff like NO DRAMA or NO GAMES which I feel is a load of B/S. Men bring just as much DRAMA as women if not more sometimes.My philosophy is you receive back what you dish out. Don't say one thing but you mean something else. If you are not looking for something serious then cool but, don't waste my time in the process. If you have multiple women that you are interested in or currently dating then just be for real and say that. I can understand you are actively looking for a mate but, don't mislead me while doing so. If a woman knows where she stands then there is NO DRAMA. I don't force anything that doesn't fit. DRAMA and GAMES are for people who don't know the true meaning of a relationship, companionship, or friendship or the process in building and staying successful with a mate.
A lasting relationship will survive, the good, the bad, and the ugly.
With all that being said gentlemen, just come correct with your stuff together or at least an action plan. Don't demand champagne when all you are serving up is Kool-aid.
Again, thanks for reading my profile. Don't take the stuff I said personal just keeping it real. However, if you wanna get to know me better just contact me. I will tell whatever you wanna know. Be respectful when contacting me please. I love sex too but, if that is all you are looking for please keep it moving. Also, I am a religious person and I continue to learn everyday but, if you are a overly religious ( you know what I mean) and full of self righteous behavior you can keep it moving too. I am not with the fake men of the cloth routine. I know what a help meet is and can be one but, not at the expense of losing myself in the process to please you. I know how to allow a man to be a man not trying to be your mother please don't try to be my father LOL. Treat me like a queen and I will treat you like a king.
I think I have touched on enough for now.
On to lighter things now ...............
I love movies (including documentaries), music (reggae, R&B, soca, soul, jazz, blues, some country, and gospel), reading, cooking, and traveling (when I can). I try to take a trip at least once a year.
Love soul food/southern, Caribbean(partial to Jamaican 1st , then Bahamian), Italian, Chinese, and Latin food. I stopped eating pork 4 years ago and counting. Don't miss it except during the holidays sometimes, family can torture you at times. LOL
I love my big family. I am an only child was raised by my grandmother. Born and raised in Florida but, with a real southern upbringing (family from South Carolina). I have some Caribbean ancestry.
I am silly sometimes, down to earth, with a unique sense of humor, kinda shy until I get to know you. When, I am not working I am usually home relaxing with a movie or book. From time to time I may go shopping for new shoes or handbag but, shop a holic days are over I have the economy to thank for that. LOL
Peace, love, and prosperity.
Day trip, tourist for a day, stroll on beach/park, night in chill laxing with DVD or board game (I am a sore loser sometimes), video arcade with some fair food, or the trusty/classic plus fool proof dinner and a movie.
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