I would like to believe than I'm an awesome guy. I love to work and I work very hard. I have 2 jobs at the moment. I work at a local cabinet shop 1st shift and am in charge of the finishing department. My co-workers call me spray daddy or spray bi#%h. ;) I pimp out cars in my spare time as well (ya know...with window tint, graphics, paint, stereos, rims, tires, etc.) I'm told that I have a great sense of humor and can make just about anyone laugh or smile no matter how bad their day is going. I enjoy all genres of music. I love art and I also draw tattoos for people even though I don't have any tats of my own....yet. I enjoy helping others feel good about themselves and appreciate who they are instead of what others want them to be. I'm very romantic and often do things "just because" to show others just how much they mean to me, and how much I appreciate them. I often do such things to people i dont even know.
I have my own place, I have 2 jobs, I have a vehicle, I have only one child, I don't have any diseases, I admit my mistakes and when I'm wrong, and I'm perfectly capable of taking care of myself and being what a responsible MAN and FATHER should be. I enjoy the more simple things in life such as going to work, paying my bills, spending time with my son, and coming home to my woman, even though I dont have one of those at the moment. ;) I usually do or at least help with the cooking, cleaning, picking up, and the rest of the things that come with everyday life which is kind of weird, but whatever. I was raised with chivalry and manners (ya know, like opening the door for ladies, and pulling out their seat at a restaurant as well as letting them order first, surprising friends/significant others with gifts/romance/special things that I know that they will appreciate and enjoy) which is very hard to find now-a-days from what i see. Most people I've met(and I've been all over the world) are very conceited and selfish. I love to laugh and try to look at the positive things even though they may be really negative.
I spent 6 years in the U.S. Army right after I graduated high school and I have an 11 yr. old son that means the world to me. I was away for a lot of years over seas including Afghanistan during his childhood, so that's where all of my spare times spent recently if I'm not working. I wouldn't want it any other way. The most memorable and happiest moments of my life are when I'm with him whether it's just playing video games, fishing, playing football, riding our 4wheelers, or just simply hanging out, talking and being what a real dad should be.
I don't lie, I don't cheat, I don't beat, and if you dont know me, you should... even if it's just to be buds. I know that this may seem hard to believe, but there are actually great, honest, faithful guys out there...so please don't let the other loser, tiny baby boys ruin an opportunity for me. :-) If you say something to me and I don't respond back, im probably not interested...just sayin. And if you don't want to say anything to me or respond to me if I say something to you...no hard feelings, good luck, and I wish you the best in what you're looking for here and in your life. Happy Fishing...
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm easy to please and really easy to get along with. I enjoy almost anything and can make even the dullest or most awkward moments fun(so i'm told). Conversation is a must...Face to Face to really get to know one another from simple things such as body language/smiles/laughter/reactions/conversation topics. Most people...men included, seem to bring up their ex's for some strange reason. Maybe its because of the pain that's caused when loving somebody or simply being with them i dunno. Honestly, I would rather not hear about them at first because I'm not them and I cant change the mistakes or hurt they've caused towards you in your past. All i can do is be myself and show you with actions just how sincere, caring, loving, faithful, honest, open, humorous and trustworthy I am, and do my best to heal the pain that others before me may have caused. An elegant dinner (yes i pay the bill) and a simple walk somewhere peaceful and quiet to actually get to know one another rates pretty high on my list of dating ideas. The option for another date after that is entirely up to you...