~Lust is easy. Love is hard. LIKE is most important. ~Carl Reiner
I am an independent, drama free, woman.
I have been divorced for 9 yrs and single for the last 3 yrs.
I enjoy intelligent banter, am open-minded, and talking about most ANYTHING.
Hardly a drinker- I tend to avoid those who do much, as drinking tends to bring drama.
I like long walks with my dog(s), kyacking, fishing,(catch and release), playing backgammon, watching Indi movies(including subtext), cooking with someone special, wildflowers, watching meteor showers, learning or experiencing new things, the occasional road trip travel in good company, exploring the outdoors, various museums, zoos, flea-markets, etc.
I don't play golf, but don't mind if you do-(my arms are too short and my boobs are too big) - I do drive a mean cart though. LOL
On my own, I tend to be an artistic, quiet homebody, I have my own property paid off in the country.
Call me a minimalist. I do not aspire to a high maintenance lifestyle.
(I'm not a clothes whore, shoe monger, and I don't get my nails done regularly.)
I get my hair trimmed about twice a year as I intend to grow it out to my bottom.
I have 1 child who's now in college at UNC Chapel Hill.
I'm not looking to have anymore. I'm open to you and yours.
I like children, most especially those raised respectfully, correctly, and consistently.
Intending for them to be respectful, responsible, independant thinkers, and ultimately happy with themselves.
I value trust, monogamy, sincerity, empathy, gentility, spirituality, and keeping one's word.
I'm looking for someone that values a resourceful, gentle country life, strongly attached to living with a connection to the natural world.
Curiously, desiring the independence and personal gratification of being as self-sufficient as possible in this all to consumer driven society.
Likes, (or is willing to learn) to raise/eat their own organic foods as much as possible, including meats.
Hunting for food is fine too, just not trophy hunting- ugh!
Someone creative, artistic, and good with their hands.
I like men that fix things, and know how to do it right the first time.
Sober, un-jaded, capable of love, and can show it emotionally as well as physically.
One who has worked hard at mastering himself, communicates honestly and openly, and is NOT passive-aggressive.
Emotionally available, unencumbered by overwhelming personal debt, and most importantly- NOT afflicted with drug or alcohol addictions.
You share similar interests and goals, having the time and desire, to invest in a relationship of your choosing, because you value the unique companionship of my company, and think we have what it takes for the long haul.
Not a carbon copy, but 1 who's desires are uniquely compatible to becoming passionately intertwined.
I don't care how much money you make, or what you drive,(I'm not dating those 'things')
I just expect you that you support yourself, and/or your children,- or things you enjoy,honestly.
*** If your FAVORITE past-time is- to drink beer/booze while watching wrestling,or every sports game, please pass me by...
Life's to short to drink and live vicariously through others actions.***
I like most types of music, from classical to rock, new age to bluegrass, and am flexible about yours.
Except 'cry in your beer' twangy country, or 'gangsta' rap.