But isn't that exactly what a nutcase would say??
How to describe myself? I am a man and a dad more than anything else that I may be. I am a hard worker with a good job but I also like to have fun. I am not a big drinker but I do drink though not to excess. I love to ride, walk, hike, take pictures, and when I have time I even write short stories. I don't want to write too much about myself on this because if I told you everything then we would have no reason to have a conversation.
What am I looking for? At the risk of sounding full of myself I will be blunt (not that it matters because nobody writes or responds anyway). I have been through a lot and I deserve the best. I will not settle for less than the best and I will not be with someone who does not at least make an effort to be the best that they can both physically and in every aspect. Don't let my chronological age fool you. I am very busy and very active. I am nowhere near ready for a rocking chair and I have lots of things that I still intend to do. What it comes down to is that I would rather be alone than be with someone who is not right for me. I am not desperate or needy but I do like to have a woman in my life. All the women on here say they are sick of games and players. How many good men are you passing up by ignoring them?
A short list of things that I like:
Old and/or abandoned buildings
One of my favorite things to do is grab my cameras and get in the car or take the bike out and find beautiful things to photograph. Not necessarily a first date activity but I am looking for a partner in crime with whom to share this pastime.
A good first date is any setting that lets us talk and get to know each other. I am not opposed to dinner and a movie though.
All bullsh*t aside what it comes down to is this; I want to love again and to be loved again. I just want to find that one and we both take care of each other and live happily ever after. Unattainable aspiration? Maybe but I haven't given up yet.