So I keep getting mails from people that keep saying they have seen me out blah blah blah, seriously, if i am out an about do not be timid and afraid to say Hi. I will NOT bite. I am a good girl. .
Far warning. I work out. ALOT 6 days a week. I zumba at least 5 days a week and do either insanity or TapouT XT on the off days. I went from 280 to 187 so i work my butt of hard to get to where i am now and i am not finished yet. Dont get me wrong, I was very successful modeling while i was larger, so I did not decide to make a lifestyle change because i was lacking in self confidence. I did so just to be healthy.
how about some basic facts.
First I do not want anyone to look at my age and see student and think that I am lazy. That isn't what is going on. After a rather icky divorce, we (my two kids and I) ended up on the bottom end. With the economy the way it has been, I had to make a hard choice to sell my business and close up shop. I decided to go back to school and now I have finished a degree in healthcare systems management and reimbursement. I would still like to attend a PA program. , i am very happy with being a medical records and reimbursement specialist. The best part of what i do, is spending hours writing appeal letters so that folks can get the coverage they are due when the insurance company continues to say no. I refuse to give up and work darn hard to help anyone i can.
I read a alot, i come from a medical family (though my brother is an artist) and so I am used to have quite lively conversations. I already had a degree in music, but I was very limited in what I could do with that degree around south carolina.
So there is the ugly.
Lets do some bad. hmm I have rarely dated anyone but white men. Doesn't mean I will judge anyone by their skin color, but feel I should be honest.
On to the good; I am open minded so if you are black, asian, whatever i am not going to say eww no. It has just turned out that most of my past relationships have been with white men.
But money pics really will not do much for me. I mean WHO spends that much time putting money on a bowl or plate and then pretend to eat it? Ish Tacky! Hint of advice fellows and fellowettes, people that really have money are not going to have pictures taken with them holding cash. They limit pointless and useless gifts and stick with the more practical and useful. I also have to use an urban dictionary on a regular basis. SO if you spend in a lot of slang, know that it gets tiring having to constantly look up what you are trying to say. I grew up in a household where my mother wasnt allowed to say Darn growing up.
LOL Now for the pretty. One shouldnt dwell on the past, and I do not. I try to see the bigger picture, and see what is coming ahead instead. I love friends, family, outdoors, being home, sports, zumba and learning something new. There probably isnt much that I do not enjoy. Laundry.. I take that back. LAUNDRY. I will wash it. but i hate putting it up. I can admit that I am not a huge rap person when it comes to music. I do love to travel i just do not get to do so. I would also love to have more free time, but unless someone can give me a reason not to be so driven, then driven is what I shall be.
I have two kids and they are just great. We spend most of our time, laughing and playing. I do not give them rules, they have "expectations". *whispers* If you tell them that means rules, I will be quite upset. They know what behavior and attitudes are expected of them and they follow those expectations or know that there will be issues later. I take this approach with other children I come across and have been very successful in mentoring and tutoring other children with the same attitude.
I am open minded; love a challenge. A walk on the beach, in the park or just holding hands.If you can cook out, you are not only my hero, but I will adore you forever as there is nothing better then cooking out! (it has to be the ingrained OSU tailgating thing) I can not grill out to save my life.
They have to have the guts to appoarch me and not be intimidated because I carry myself with confidence and with pride. Seriously, do you know how many guys will send a friend over to talk to you first? Really? A Wing man? Seriously? I thought they just did that on tv. I am not vain, however I like myself. I am confident and comfortable with myself. I embody the truth that you do not have to be a size 2 in this day and age to be beautiful, sexy, and carry oneself as a lady out in public on a handsome man's arm. I've dated from doctors, to pro athletes, to contractors. My point of mentioning this is that I am not one for guys that brag about what they think will impress. I was married to someone that felt his goal in life was to be like the Jones (ask if you dont know what that means) and it was NOT a nice situation. You either have or you dont, you either try or you dont, you either save or you dont. Doesnt make you a bad person if you dont as long as you a driven and have the attitude to change your situation.
Oh yeah, and just cause I say I am looking for long term, that is just my nice cammienese way of saying I am not gonna just hop in bed with anybody. I mean come on folks its 2000 something and my degree of choice is in the medical field. I am not looking to get hitched in 30 days cause that would just be creepy. :)
I rarely drink anything outside of water, still have an occasional soda though. I just do not like the taste of alcohol but I do not have anything against someone that wants to have a few drinks in social situations.
I do have to say no to smokers though. It makes me very sick and second hand smoke is nothing to joke about.
And while I have a bunch of other stuffy that I want to say at this moment, I think I will save that for emails.
What are you waiting for?
Someone to clicky the mouse for you?
And by the way if i seem a little blunt, that is because I am.
hmm Okay I could put something really awesome here, I could say some expensive dinner at some five star place downtown (do we even have any in charleston), horse drawn carriage ride, and etc etc etc. But lets be honest, does that really make people comfy? For special events sure, but first date?
Maybe I should demand more, but really a night at Bw3, plenty of game credits on one of their game thingys, plenty of wings, drinks, and some awesome games on tv. I prefer football, basketball, extreme fighting, and hockey. If i must, i will settle for baseball. Its a normal saturday and sunday for me anyway.
Or heck, how about something different like a day at one of the historical places around here. You have plenty of time to chat and talk while walking around.
This will really vary depending on the person. I mean I do enjoy surprises, so feel free to surprise me.
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