ask to know
Yes this is detailed and intricate, but that's just me. If you chuckle or smile and understand my quips then drop a line.
Me: the bait...
I'm looking for a man, not a boy. Someone who understands matters of the heart are not toys to be fiddled with. This has not to do with age, but with maturity and confidence. I'm a fun woman who loves to laugh and hang with her friends, of whom I have a very tight bond. I love to sing, act and be spontaneous. Every day is a chance for a new experience and I'm daring and will try anything once. I'm 27, a little wild and a 50/50 mix of girly and tomboy. I don't smoke cigarettes but am 420 friendly and only really go out for karaoke nights, I love to sing! Not a drinker when on a night on the town unless it's a special occasion of some rare sort. However I do enjoy white Zinfandel, a deep merlot or shiraz, or any dry red wine... Maybe pair it with a fire place, a book or a pair of arms on a cold winter night... Ok! Day dream over.
I'm artsy, inventive, music loving and creative to a fault, but also love a nice quiet evening with a movie and cuddling. I love animals and have a bloodhound and a cat that is beyond spoiled. I love heels, trucks, music, movies, some video games, and want a Harley one day. I believe everyone should read books, they are transportation to someone elses imagination, and I love to travel, mentally or physically.
I live at home for now by choice. I don't say no to a challenge. You can get through anything you decide to. I have no siblings but my best friend and I are as close as sisters, and their family are like my own. I have my own car, and work, work, work. I attended Kent State Stark for two years I want to go back and finish my musical theatre degree. I may not have finished college yet but I am an educated woman, with a keen wit and have quite an extensive vocabulary. I ask the same in return, you have a brain, please use it. Don't let it rot before a zombie has a chance to knaw on it.
Music- JUST ABOUT ALL OF IT!! Except polka, that genre I just don't get. I love music and try to surround myself with it at all times.
Movies- Another thing I love a half million of. So hard to list them. I mean seriously, I have over 300 and this isn't even Sparta.
Tv- hello Netflix.
Video games- Yes and no. I have a Ps3 and it get my money's worth out of it. Depends on the game, I haven't tried them all so I'll play this one by ear.
You: the fish...
I would like to meet a man who is self assured about his personality and masculinity with a sweet romantic side. After all every girl likes to be romanced, (and girls like to romance a guy too). A man who knows his intent in a budding relationship and wanting to share and be open is key. I like to take things a bit slow at first, to get a feel for the situation. Starting off by building a friendship with lots of talking is a great way to begin. Preferably a man with a ready smile and is easy to laugh. Humor and being able to both take and give sarcasm is a must because I'm a smart-a**. Must want to snuggle and be together but also have a need for some personal space like myself.
I must admit I have a weakness for tall men, especially since I like to wear high heels on occasion; the heels make me about 6'0-2"
Music, books, movies, tv, vid. gms.- Whatever floats your boat as long as you like them. It would also be wonderful if you are willing to explore the unending ebb of entertainment with an open mind. There is so much to discover and create.
Must haves on both parts...
Respect for generally all that the universe encompasses.
Trust, simple as that. Without it nothing would have ever been achieved. Wrap your brain around that pan galactic gargle blaster. Kudos to those who know what movie that's from. ;) A true favorite of mine.
Loyalty to what you believe in.
Love for the ones you hold dear.
And faith that you can do what ever it is you damn well wish to!
I'm open minded and optimistic, drop me a line. I reiterate, don't just say hi, hello, how are you, suuuup, or any of those empty, brainless one liners. I won't respond to those. Type something that conveys that you are firing on all cylinders. At the end of the day it will be wit that won. I promise I'll respond in kind. ;-D
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Do you have something in mind? I thinks it's quite sexy and suave when a man takes charge and decides the 1st date. It shouldn't be a big expensive production, not at all. Just thoughtful and kind. Build a snow man and get coffee afterwards to warm up? Wonderful! Red wine and a board game on the carpet? Perfect! An hidden away coffee shop. A dark, smokey hookah bar where we can talk easily while being cozy? I'm there. Where are you?