Please do not send a message that just says "hey there". That's generic and you wouldn't want a man sending you a note that says "sup" or "hey beautiful" you would want a note with some substance to it. Please do the same.
I'm cape vearden and native American, originally from the South. More importantly, I am the father of the greatest 3 year old ever. I'm a very laid back individual. While I don't mind going out, your more inclined to find me at home watching HGTV. I currently work two jobs so I don't have much spare time. But I will make the effort to create time if your worth it. Even though I'm striving for more, I'm comfortable with who I have become so far. i don't take anything for granted and I do not judge. I just try to understand situations. I think it's better to understand why than to have an opinion in some cases.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I really don't have an ideal one. I prefer our connection to decide our destination