I"m looking for someone who is comfortable with who they are, who has already experienced life, and who can be honest and faithful.If we have a problem with something it would be awesome to be able to sit down and talk about whatevers bothering us, instead of just holding it in or turning to somebody else, after all, how can we try to fix or work through the problem if we don"t know what it is. Communication is the key to all relationships, neither person can read the others mind, so you need to be able to tell me if something or someone is bothering you!!! Honesty is of the utmost of importance!!! "Also if money is at the top of your list i"m probably not the guy for you, yes it"s definately a must in life, but as long as the bills are paid and we can go out once in awhile that"s fine with me. I"ve already experienced life with it"s ups and downs, i"m 46 years old and would love to find someone who is committed to a relationship and ready to settle down!!! I have a 16-year old daughter, and a 15-year old son, neither live with me, but they are my life and i talk to them daily. My mom had a daycare center when i was growing up, most of the kids had only one parent in their lives, were kind-a sad and mixed up, so i would spend time with them playing catch with the football or just try to make them smile, it was awesome, sometimes when there parent or parents came to pick them up- they wanted to stay, it was a good feeling."Got nothing against girls, but if you had a son who needed a little guidance and structure that would definately be a plus, and if you also have a black-lab, well i"m already your"s. I really enjoy-cooking, and also cleaning the house, very weird but i like it!!!! "For music I like soft-rock, reo, chicago, dr.hook, air-supply, styx.