I have been divorced for 7 years now and have met many nice people during this time period, but haven't found the elusive “one” yet. :) I know that she is out there though and I know that I may receive a wink or email from her on any given day and life could change forever.... ;) I also want to add that I'm not afraid of commitment and have the desire to be married again. No, I'm not going to string you out for years if we have a good connection and fall in love. :)
There are so many things that I could write in this section, but I guess I will just go with a description of what I envision my life being like in the future with that special someone. I see us walking through life together, hand in hand, making decisions together, dreaming about the future together, compromising when necessary and communicating about concerns that we have when they arise, not hiding them and pretending that they do not exist. I picture us taking long walks during October when the air is crisp and the leaves are colorful. Sharing a bottle of wine in front of a fireplace together while the snow is falling outside. Cooking up new recipes in the kitchen. Going to church together. Decorating the Christmas tree while Christmas music is playing in the background. Running 5k's and possibly hiking a mountain together. Decorating for Autumn when the chilly air comes... Having friends over for a game night or to just hang out on the deck and talk. I picture us going away to New England or NYC for a long weekend. Taking a walk around the neighborhood after supper. Kayaking together on a quiet lake. Spending time at the ocean. Going to a play or musical. Watching a Rangers, Yankee, Giants or Pat's game together. Just doing life together, enjoying every day, and not taking it for granted.
I also should add that I love ladies who are quick witted and on the outgoing side, with a bit of sarcasm thrown in for fun. Love the back and forth banter... :)
If you are a glass is half full kind of person who is emotionally healthy, easygoing and looking for a long term relationship that could lead to more.... If you can picture a life like this together and have dreams of your own that you want to share with your special someone, I'd like to hear from you. Who knows, maybe we are both seeking the same things but just haven't met each other yet... :)
Have a great day! :)