One last time... I've tried to explain myself and what I'm looking for in as much detail as possible, but some of you aren't even reading it. I'm NOT looking for hook-ups or anything like that! If I wanted meaningless sex I wouldn't be online, I'd just walk outside!! Now, with that being said... I want a boyfriend and all the perks that come with it. I know that a lot of guys find me attractive, but I don't want to be liked for how I look: looks fade and that kind of beauty is only skin deep. I want to be liked for who I am, therefore if you haven't read my profile and are only messaging me based on my pics, don't waste your time.
I've been single for way longer than most and that's my choice (tons of messages referring to this). I haven't found the right guy for me and I'm not willing to settle... I don't think I'm that picky, but in this day and age relationships tend to be purely physical and they're missing that unbeatable connection. I work a ton, so this seems to be the best place to search for the best match. I don't have many rules in life, but I do have rules for online dating... hey I'm single and you never know who's on the other end of the comp, so don't take it personally (you should be happy that I want to stay safe with all the crazies online), but I won't use any means of personal contact outside of POF until after we meet. This means NO calling from a blocked #, no emailing, sending pics, texting, social networking, etc. SO DON'T ASK!! If a guy is truly interesting, he'll ask me out and we'll meet on a set date/time at a location of his choosing. You might not like my method, but I don't really care... it tends to weed out the guys that just want in my pants or aren't really who they portray themselves as.
- I'm extremely self-sufficient, self-aware, intelligent, and educated. I like pretty much everything, LOVE new experiences/cultures. So much easier to tell ya what I don't like and I believe you can't knock it until you try it... will try almost anything once.
Did you ever learn about type A & B personalities?? Well as a Gemini (twin sign), I have 2 personalities (my professional, type A; my chill, type B) and I tend to balance them equally ;-)
I like questions and explanations... after all, how does one learn?!? I'm outgoing, fun-loving, down to earth, open minded and a bluntly honest modern hippie. I know life has caused me to become a half-baked cookie: hard outside, soft/gooey inside. I care about health, Mother Earth, and humankind. I'm short, hourglass shaped and thick... meaning I'm no where close to being fat, but I'll never be model thin! Besides womyn are supposed to be soft.
- I'm looking for my best friend, better half, a partner in crime = fun in all different settings with all types of people, I want someone real and reliable, intelligent, educated, compassionate, and open-minded. Someone that keeps it interesting (I get bored easily), who's a good communicator, isn't afraid to share and is emotionally ready for a real relationship. He should care about their health, our Mother Earth, and humankind. Most importantly someone who knows that actions speak way louder than words & they take the time to get to know who I really am (not via texting).
He should know that I'm a Jew by culture and feel strongly about my roots, so my future children will be raised Jewish. If you have an issue with this then we aren't a match. I also want to be a foster parent and/or adopt... there are so many unloved/unwanted kids in this world, so he has to be comfortable with this idea and therefore can't have a record since that would label our home as unsafe for kids in the system.
NOT into one night stands, hook-ups, f*** buddies, etc.
NOT into games, cheaters, jealousy or substance abuse issues
DON'T WANT active military, since I don't want to spend months apart... But I do support our troops.
DON'T CONTACT if you've posted naked (or half-naked) pics you took of yourself
DON'T CONTACT if you're a tobacco user
Oh yeah... all my pics are within last 12 months...