"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
— Dr. Seuss
I really never know what to say here, so I guess I am me and that is enough for me, if its not for someone else...well then they are not for me! :-D
I am by no means a skinny girl, but I am mostly happy with my body, if you are not, keep on looking. I am outgoing, most the time positive and happy, but can get in a funk from time to time without having an explanation for you, I am looking for someone who meshes with my personality. If you think this is not you then do not bother to message me.
Now on the topic of drugs, I have done many in my past, but that is such a far and distant past that I have no room for it in my life. Ethically and morally I have no problem with weed, I just find it a waste of time and money. If you are a once in a while smoker, I am ok with that.
I love my kids, they will always come first but they are finally of an age that they do not need me all the time, it would be nice to start focusing on what makes me happy as well.
I don't mind if you have kids, I just do not want to, nor can I have more kids, if you want a breeder, keep on looking!
NOTE: If you send me a message and I look at your profile and do not respond its either
#1. I am waiting until I feel a little more clever or witty to respond, or trying to figure out how to respond to simple messages like, "Hey" "Wow" "Was Up" etc....
#2 Your profile simply did not interest me, or there was something in it that made me fairly certain we are not a good match.
#3 Your location is undesirable.
#4 Lets get real here, you clicked on my profile because you liked my pic, you messaged me either because you REALLY liked my pic or you liked what I had to say. All people have their own things they are attracted to, and without attraction there can be no intimacy, I am not looking for a platonic friend, I am looking for someone who can be everything to me. Does this mean I am looking for a GQ model? No. I have very varied tastes in men, and sometimes it can be something very odd or quirky or simple that makes me attracted to you, does this make me shallow? No. It makes me like every other person out there. Just more honest about it than most. All it does when you message me demanding I message you back, or call me a ****, or call me shallow is thankful I didn't message you back.
I have provided many pictures. If one of the first things you ask me for is MORE pictures, this sends a message to me of where this conversation is going and where your interests lie. I immediately lose interest. Sorry if this makes me...as one has said...a freak. But I have dealt with this so many times, its the same thing every time. I am not interested in a random hook up, or sexting, or whatever else that usually goes along with this type of conversation.
P.S. I do not like POF's chat option, message me a few times, if we hit it off we can take it from there but I generally turn down chat requests using their IM function.
I prefer low key, low stress, first dates, maybe a bite to eat at sidepockets and a game of pool, no need for either person to maintain intense conversation. Just laid back. Or a quick breakfast meet, casual.