So I'm very picky.. I've been looking and waiting for the perfect man and I'm starting to think he does NOT exist in this crazy world. But at the same time I'm not going to lower my standards either.. lol it's very simple I want to be treated the same way I will treat u... and that is with respect. Ok, so looks are important to me.. I'd be lying if I said they weren't.. I have to be attracted to u. Next.. u need to have a job and be able to hold a job.. I have too much going for me to be dealing with someone that can't do for himself.. And u don't need to make a lot of money, I don't care about that - I'm very independent. Overall, I want to find someone I can connect with on all levels.. Physical, emotional, mental and sexual - I want it all!! I consider myself a good girl (yes they do still exist) and I will go above and beyond for my man in every way possible. Don't waste my time or ur time if ur not looking to build a relationship.