.NEW UPDATES BELOW!
Ok from the begining. I'm 30 i am a single mom. I have an amazing 10yr old daughter. She is my everything... I love my life. I just think life in general is amazing .. Okay now for why I'm here .Well.... I'm interested in meeting new people. Maybe finding something that has the potential of becoming something serious. I want to find my soul mate if there is such a thing lol. I want someone mature. Responsible. Handsome. Lol obviously. Someone with goals and plans for his future someone patient and secure with himself but definitely not someone who is conceited. just someone who basically wants the same things that I do .I would like to find someone that I may potentially be with. I would like to find the man who's face I will wake up to every morning and who's arms I will sleep in every night. but Let me make it clear my daughter is my life . We come as a package deal. So if u can't handle that then don't bother messaging me. I am definitely not into games , nor am I looking for a one night stand or for some random entertainment. I don't want drama,and don't need pen pals . So if that's what you are about, please don't waste my time or yours. For everyone else I look forward to hearing from you. Please only people who are seriously interested in getting to know me email me. For everyone else.. good luck on your search.
Okkayyyyy so most important UPDATE.... before you ask and annoy the sh#t out of me... yes the girl in the pics is me... they r not fake or stolen,, I'm not 300 pounds and only taking pics from my good side.... " I don't actually think I have a good side lol" I'm single because I work two jobs a day have a shitty schedule and am also a mother ... not because I have a big plan against the world to lie to every guy on this site with fake pics.... I'm here to meet someone,,, not play games... soooo if ur going to hold it against me because sometimes u run into an insecure,full of sh*t fake skank on this site, please don't message me and waste my time.... its limited enough as it is.... ty and have a nice day!
UPDATE....okay soooo it seems most men on this site are just looking for ass...even though they are saying they are looking for something real.... please don't bullsh@t me I can see right through it... I know what I'm looking for and I think I've made it perfectly clear, so do me a favor and stop wasting my time....
Ok here we go
1) selling drugs is not a job
2) unemployment not a job
3) ur mom giving u money from her social security checks ? Not a job !
4) waiting around for the next random construction/ landscaping job call that comes only 3 times a month .. Not a job !!!
5) claiming to be an actor/musician or model? For most of you , means you have no job!!
6) please have a job ,,, is that so much to ask???
7) DA is not a word! Wats DA deal? Not attractive!
8) I am not your MA, so please stop calling me that .
9) what's up? Is not a productive way to start a conversation with a girl on a dating site that your interested in getting to know. Kinda setting yourself up for a one word response ! Nothing ?
10) deff over all if these generic questions that I get asked everyday ... Soooo here all all if the answers ......
* I work as an interior designer during the day and manage a restaurant at night .
* for fun I like to travel
* it is just me and my daughter in the picture.
* I'm leaning towards not wanting more kids
* am not interested in dating a man who has children ( I know sounds bad)
* will most likely not relocate
* my profile sums up why I am here
* favorite color white
* yes I have met people from this site .. ( with no luck)
* and no you can't call or text or have my number in the first 3 mins of talking to me .. I don't give out my number that easily .. Besides if it doesn't work out, its much easier to ignore you on here :)
*****Someone please come up with something interesting to ask !!
IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN PUT IT IN YOUR PROFILE!!!! That's not something to leave out because you think its "to personal" what it really is by leaving it out is misleading and unfair .. If you're looking for something real, try being honest and real yourself !!
And you know what drives me crazy, on your profile where it says do you want children, or do you have children and you put prefer not to say???? Huh.. you either want them or you don't, you either have kids or you don't? what the hell.!!!..and where it asks do you have a car? You write n/a? What? You either have one or you don't. When you ask for more pics and I tell u to go on my FB and you tell me u don't have one, I have to call bullsh*t on that.... some of u might not, but most of you just don't want me to see that you already have a gf that ur hanging on to while your still out looking for something better...! . please stop the bs... and be honest......