I continue to use this site in hopes to meet someone I wouldn't normally have the chance to on the day to day. I don't love the online dating thing because I am not huge on sending a bunch of e-mails back and forth. I think e-mails and texts only work for very generic conversation and are not the best way to get to know someone. On the same note I don't really want to spend time on the phone with everyone either. I know make up my mind right? lol! I say let's meet and if there is chemistry great and if not, no harm done :)
Ultimately I am looking for a life partner- someone who will be my best friend and lover. I am not going to rush it and I am not going to settle. I don't think it is possible to meet "the one" sitting at home and not putting yourself out there. I am here to meet people and just see what happens. I'm not looking to get married tomorrow or rush anything, but I am also not looking for a casual hook up. Please don't message me if that is what you are looking for. If your profile says casual dating and nothing serious or something along those lines I probably won't respond.
I love having fun...in any capacity. I am the girl who will want to put my jersey on and watch football, but then can change into a black dress get all dolled up and go out. I like doing just about anything. I love my friends and family and would do anything for them. The most daring thing that I have done at this point is sky diving, but I really want to go zip lining through a jungle or rain forest.
About the person I want to spend time with...I am looking for someone who can challenge me mentally. I am over looking for the hottest guy in the room, the un-attainable bad boy, or the games player. I still need to be attracted to the person obviously, but the outer and the inner need to match. If you mean what you say AND your actions back it up then you are what I am looking for. I want old school romance and chivalry. Not to mean that I do not want a man's man, but I just want a nice balance of both. If you can make me laugh/ smile you will have the key to my heart. I like an outgoing person who can have fun in any situation. Motivation and work ethic are a must. I am a very driven person and want someone who can be a partner in that. I don't want to lead and I don't want to follow.
If you are intrigued by what you have read and my bluntness has not offended or scared you off please feel free to message me. Please write more than just "hi, how are you" and please no more of the " hey, sexy". Just some free advice...LOL!
Happy Fishing :-)