Hi, I've been divorced almost 3 yrs but apart for almost 4. I'm from Mich. but spent most of my younger years in S. Florida and feel like I am on a different level than most people in Mich. Florida is so much more relaxed and accepting. I am easy going, love life and being outdoors. Not when it is too cold out. After many years of being back in Mich, I thought I would have adapted to winter but I have not. I blame that on the ADHD. lol I feel trapped in the winter. If I could, I would live in Florida during winter and spring then Mich for the summer and fall. It'll be a long time before I do that because I can't be without my kids. Maybe you can help show me the fun side to winter? I love camping, bonfires traveling, kayaking, riding my bike, hang gliding, white water rafting, canoeing, etc. I have a great sense of humor, I love to laugh and make other people laugh. I have been told that I am the life of the party. I have my vice but I don't smoke cigs, never have and I'm not a heavy drinker. I do let loose with the family from time to time and enjoy an occasional microbrew (beer snob). Quality not quantity. I do like to relax so don't worry. I like to watch TV/Movies, play board games, Xbox (Call of Duty), cards or just bum around the house. I love good food and can be a “foodie” My fav is seafood but I like almost anything. I love ALL kinds of music and love to dance. Will you dance with me?
I have a good job, I work hard and I am good at what I do. My Job is very flexible and I can always find free time any time of the day.
I have 2 kids. A 14 yr old girl and an 12 yr old boy. They're my priority. I’m doing my best to prepare them for this world and what it has to offer. They're fun, smart, and well mannered. I am also trying to teach them how important family is and that life has so much to offer. I have a big family and spend a lot of time with them. They are some of the most fun, caring, and genuine people you will ever meet.
I want to meet someone and build a strong relationship. I'm not here for one night stands, I am not serial dater nor am I desperate. I want a friendship that we can build on to become more than just friends. Friendship is an important foundation. I want you to be my best friend. I want someone who is down to earth and doesn't sweat the small stuff. Let’s enjoy life together and have fun. Let’s talk about everything, be adventurous, laugh together, try new things, travel, play games. I want someone with a little edge. I want to be able to trust her with everything and not have to worry about anything or feel I have to tip toe around because she is paranoid about everything I do. If I am with you, I am ONLY with YOU! Let's enjoy life and be happy through our journey together. Why rush? Let it happen. Relax and enjoy it! Life’s too short and is passing us by too quickly. Be serious at work. Only take life serious when you have to. I will not settle so if you can accept me for the person I am and will not try to change me, let’s do this. I will not try to change you and accept you for who you are. We are not perfect and all have our stories in life so let's not judge too quickly.
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It is hard to say what I would do for the first date. It all depends.. We have to be able to talk and laugh though...