I am an established guy with my own house, cars etc. I just want to find an altruistic woman who will love me & only me, forever no matter what. Not until her attention gets diverted by a butterfly. If you wrote "Hi or Hey there" I won't respond. I want to know why you like me. Liking me in itself is often reason enough for me to like you. If you've been with more men than fingers, I don't want any part of that. I am not sure if women realize their anatomy changes with each partner. Just like people & those huge earrings. Not interested in finding out the biggest gauge you've had.